Not really. HB7 maybe... But her personality and interests make her a 10 in my book.

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

ok

Are you a gambler?

10 to 9 odds that she already has a boyfriend. She was probably playing multiple decks. She obviously likes(or liked) you. Otherwise, there would be no reason for her to call you and actually go out with you. But she flaked out a few times. It could have been tough for her to say no to an existing boyfriend who puts her on the spot and goes, "Hey, I'm coming over. Let's order a pizza." - What the hell could she possibly say?

Here's a little secret: WOMEN HAVE NO CLUE.

Take a group of girls and spread out 10 hand bags in front of them. Maybe 5 of them "brand name" bags and the other "non-brand name" bags. What do you get? EVERY SINGLE ONE will choose a brand name bag. Their decisions are based on their belief that THEY will be accepted by others and not on what their heart truly wants. (Ever try this in a 3rd World country where "brand names" are hardly known? . . . I have)

Think about how sad this is. These beings actually live their entire lives, eat, shit, go to school, marry, and live their entire lives making decisions based on whether they will either be accepted by their societies or not. . . of course there are exceptions but . . . very few . . .

There's that saying, "Attraction is not a decision . . ." Well the truth is that women do not decide on ANYTHING. . . .

The point is, if you're "fighting" over a girl, do you know who wins? Yeah, it's the guy who makes the decision FOR HER so that it's easy and gentle on her soul. She says, "I'll call you later" and you go, "OK". She says, "Maybe we can see each other on Sat" and you go, "OK". She says, "You will be my little bitch" and you go . . . ???

It's your show. . . . you gotta run it.

Reading between the lines, I have to agree!!

Great post, thanks!

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

Just to keep everyone updated...
DING DING DING!!

She "came clean" today... and said her ex of 4 yrs "popped back into her life" and now she has to "make a decision"....

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"A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi

Thanks for this post, truly a helpful one.

We always think what women want, but I also think they think the same about men, our miscommunication can be derived from what we assume, but yet don't understand.

Here's another "pull out of the sky" random shit.

Typically, when women tell you, "I have to make a decision." . . they've already made one. Women are raised to be more emotionally aware of other's feelings so they often offer guys an emotional "massage" prior to laying down the bomb. (Sometimes they even make themselves believe that they are still in the decision making "process")

So it's, "I have to make a decision . . ." then 3 days later, "I made my decision." - On the other hand, the other guy probably already knows her decision as she could be sucking his cock as you read this.

Still . . . you never know . . . So just in case she told the other guy, "I have to make a decision . . . " - You want to differentiate yourself from the other guy as much as possible.

If you call her over and over again, she's gone. If you leave her alone, she's gone. The other guy has a huge advantage and it's that he's already fooled around with her sexually. You haven't done this yet. . . .but you can actually leverage this situation and turn this into your advantage.

Same ol' same ol' sex is better than NO sex, but it's never as exciting and crazy as the that heated, nutty, can't keep your hands off of each other madness that only NEW love birds tend to experience. This is your advantage.

So don't focus on "decisions" or ask her "what's going on in your mind", or other boring crap related to her little double dribble action.. Go with the frame you should have begun with when you first met her, "Muffins, what's up? Let's go grab a bite at ______." . . . "Hey Diva, what r u sitting at home? Let's go over to _______ ." If no, "Too bad. OK, next time. . . "

Now when you go there, you show up like nothing ever happened. Upbeat . . . smiling. . . joking. Then there's that point . . . there's that point she'll get that look on her face like, "this has been difficult for me. " (grab the violin look). That's when you transmutate that moody/nervous energy into SEXUAL energy. This is quite easy even if she's "pretending" through this act. Grab her elbow, pull her in. Do that flip her hair behind her ear for her act. Hold her hands. Not word for word but you're going with things like:

"This is supposed to be fun right?" . . . "Hey, no matter what happens, we're going to be great friends for ever" . . . "I am so into you" . . . "

Then you just make a little meat hook with your hand and you just have a go at it. (The meat hook just prevents last second twitching or turning. So DON'T manhandle her and try to yank her into you) Once you start digging in there, she'll give in. What's more exciting? First time hot, messy kiss with a new partner or that predictable kiss with some ol' ex?

Obviously, you can't do this with texts or calls . . .