Hi, Im new here and really didnt know where to put this subject, so I thought it goes here.

I have read this forum a lot and already learnt something, but now lets get on to my "story" (Sorry about my bad english, Im foreigner)

So, Im now 17 and she is also. We go same school and we are even in same class. This girl is very talkative and kind almost to everybody, what makes difficult for me to know if she is interested in me.

We are good friend imo, she shares some secrets with me and we send text messages to each others (But they never include anything flirting ) Well, to clarify my situation: she sends me sms if she has a fight with her parents or if she is pissed off (for example), but also "normal messages" like "How are you" and so on.

She have told me that Im sweetheart because I listen and answer to her (I read somewhere that this is bad?). Girl have also told that I have funny stories/things and Im nice. In school we talk at lessons and write letters (not loveletters) and draw pictures.

This girl drinks, well, I dont want to lie, every weekend. Sometimes Im also drinking there, but we never do anything. Just talk

What an earth should I do to get this girl? Forgot to tell, HB 8-9

Do you think I should change my style from this listening guy to something else?

Thanks for helping a total rookie. I have had only one pretty short (couple weeks) relationship before this. ALSO I have a problem, Im interested in some chick and when I have almost "captured" her, interest in this girl runs out.

You should learn how to tighten up your text game. Her sharing secrets
with you means that you have TRUST built up in this girl (good sign).

Not flirting in texts means that you should open up that door first. When
she texts you again try a little bit of flirting like playing as a therapist and
say, "How did that make you feel " or, "Really? What happened next?"
or, "Hmm. Weird." or you could just not act interested..
Hmm. Sounds to me like she is seeing you as another one of her girlfriends
(bad sign). You should tell her, the next time this happens...
"Come over here so you can forget about your troubles." If she comes over,
have fun and help her have a good time. Tickle fights and whatever.

If she can't come over, then tell her that you are coming over to her house. And go from there.
You're a sweetheart and you're nice and actually listen to her... what the hell
bro... LMAO you have not read this forum enough. That is BAD.

In your letters that you write her, you need to spice them up with some
flirting and sexual innuendos. You can search for TEXT FLIRTING and
SEXUAL INNUENDOS so that you can get good ideas of what they are and
how to use them correctly. Too long to explain them here.
If she is talking to you and pays you more attention to you than any one
else at the party, this is good, and is an opportunity for you to move her
to a more ISOLATED location at this party to make your moves on her.

She is talking to you, which is also giving you the chance to make a move
on her... try just putting your finger on her lips when she is talking and say,
"Shh." then lean in for a kiss. You might be surprised how open she will be
to this. (make sure that you two are in a pretty isolated place when talking).

Just take her hand and keep talking to her and move her to another location
where you two can sit and still be talking. When she is talking, just do the
above thing... Put finger on her lips and say, "Shh. You talk too much."
and lean in for the kiss.. if she don't stop you by saying "No" just keep on
going and kiss her.

If she says ANYTHING besides just telling you "No" keep on going for the
kiss and when your lips connect, make it the best damn kiss possible.
Is it that the interest runs out, or you get cold-feet about moving into the
seduction stage of things.. Well, when I say seduction, I mean actually
getting to the point of actually having sex with her... are you scared about
being turned down when you get her in the bed?

Are you scared because of some other reason?

There is nothing to be scared about, if you are shy about something, it
don't matter to the girl if she is horny. You will get what you want and she
will get what she wants. Win/Win...

If you read this forum, you should really read up on Last Minute Resistance
before you decide to move the girl into the bedroom. Some of the people
on here have been hit with the LMR at one time in their life.

So this is a totally real thing that happens to a lot of guys. Read up on
Last Minute Resistance..

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Thanks for your reply Leprechaun.

I think I really need to start reading those things!

And it is just that I loose my interest, nothing to do with sexual things.

I report here after reading and so on

EDIT: And if I didnt make clear, Im looking for long relationship with her, not only one night.

EDITEDIT: One more question, what should I be like to her when she text messages to me something like "How are you" or if she tells something. Should I be like "I care" or "I dont care"?

Tried opener and I think I got positive:

"Would you mind staying out of my mind for a while so I could get my math homeworks done!"

"Well what you thinking about then and what we have from maths?"

What you think?

Yes. You made it clear bro.
If she texts "how are you" you should just come back with, "I'm about an 8."

If she tells you something in a text, just say, "I feel for ya" or "respect" I
find that the fewer words you use, the more it seems to open her up. She
might try figuring out what is wrong with you as to why you are only giving
her a little bit of attention.

If she asks what's wrong, just tell her, "I'm watching a movie right now,
let me get back to you when it's over." Don't give her your attention all
the time. You have to push in order to be able to pull her back to you.
OK. I know your English is not very good. But if you said the first line,
"stay out of my mind", and she said the second line, "what you thinking
of then", and I did not understand the last part of that line...

Very Happy and what we have from maths? <- Did not understand.

Standing by until 10 PM

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Aa, sry. "and what we have from maths", it refers to my sms:

"Would you mind staying out of my mind for a while so I could get my math homeworks done!"

So she asks what homework we got from maths.

Okay, I start reading this forum more and try to be less caring and so on, like you said. Lets see where this leads

I have been reading whole day about "Cocky and Funny", do you guys think its a good way?

Cocky & Funny is a good start to build up your confidence and attraction in the
girls. Eventually you will just start to be C&F without even trying and then you
can add more variety to your game.

C&F is a confidence builder, it also adds value to yourself that others will see
immediately. Some people might tell you that they don't like the NEW you,
just don't listen to these people, they are the ones who actually will get to
know/like the NEW you.

The ones who will say they don't like the NEW you will mainly be your family
members. Just remember that you are being C&F for the chicks, not your
family. However, C&F will lead you to a NEW and IMPROVED life.

Double Your Dating is the mile-marker for COCKY & FUNNY...

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Hey thanks again. That was the information I was looking for!

So Im freezing up right now with this girl and giving some neg.
(Free translation)

SMS Dialog:
"I have something to tell you tomorrow. Remind" - Me
"What thing!" - Her, I ignored that one

Hour later

"Heyy What you got? Curiousity woke" - Her
"Your clothes are too tight for ya and you use too much make-up. Gotta handle one important thing ->" -Me

Was that too.. erm.. stiff? nasty?

"Aha that was nice thing " - Her, answered 5-10min later. Ignored that one.

2-3 hour after last one

"Hey it remained bothering me! And you have been funny since weekend "

How should I react? And what to do after this?