and she just so happens to have a boyfriend of 2 years.

we went out in high school and talk everyone once in awhile (holidays, birthdays, etc)

i've read up a some bf destroyer material but all of it has to do with girls who you've just met.

should i disqualify myself right off the bat or wait on it?

should i bring up anything from our relationship in conversation? any particulars?

i need some help on a way to go about this, i new to implementing the pua strategies and figure this would be be a good opportunity to try some of the methods.

she did agree to go out, so thats a step in the right direction. what do you guys think?

(for starters I dont 'go crawling back' to Ex's. She must be either fo00ookin hot or does something amazing with her finger)

Well depending on how long since you last seen eachother you can 'reinvent' your self.

No need to destroy the boyfriend, you just need game and he will whittle out existance.

Just play qualify game: (Bait-hook-reel-release and DHV stories) dont seem keen or interested at all till at the end when you can start flirting again.

But be aware, read her reactio

POSITIVES: if she gives IOIs or show other forms of interested the relationship may be rekindled.

NEGATIVES: If she holds her ground, dont go to her, back off and meet next week because your 'busy'.

(oh and add a time constrait say your meeting someone later or have someplace to go, then you can eject nicely if thing go to pot)

Hope this helps im sure you can find some DHV stories on this site somewhere.


SWING

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I have recently been faced with a similar scenario with my ex. Things eventually just got too hard and she was constantly flaking so the relationship eventually ended.

I kept my distance for a while then finally we got in touch again. After that it was almost as if things were the same as when we were dating, without the actual 'dating' or 'sex' part. It got to the point where it was really starting to get to me again and mess with my frame.

Finally I decided it was sink or swim time and we got together to hang out. It was this meeting that I told her I was dating other women and she freaked out. I dont think it really registered that I wasnt going to just wait around forever. It ended really bad and she was really pissed.

I guess my point is that sometimes you just have to throw it out there. I still dont know what will be the end result of this. Maybe she will realize what she is missing and come back. Maybe she will be pissed off enough to go away and we can both finally move forward. Either way, things cant stay in limbo forever.

swing - great post, that was the most clear I've received on here. ill be looking for some DHV stories and looking for that bait-hook-reel-release method somewhere.

like is said we havent been dating since highschool, which was 3 years ago. so it's not exactly like I'm crawling back to her. It was her birthday recently, mine was last month, but i told her that

"i want to take you out, we can have a belated birthday celebration for ourselves"

and she jumped right on the idea.

were are friends, well, to say friends is a stretch, we are very friendly when we just so happen to talk to each other.

i just want to ask, when you said "whittle the bf out of existence" you do that by using DHV stories?