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| Finchy | PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:12 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:52 am Posts: 36 | | I'm Finchy from sunny South Africa and I'm super intrigued about by everything to do with you guys and becoming better at my own game.
I've never regarded myself as a PUA however, up untill a few weeks ago I never thought of myself as an AFC. Thats when I realised I've got to put my pride in my pocket, forget my past success and go back to step 1
I'm a sales training manager and I feel that knowing the science behind getting yourself to excellence is very important so I thought I'd make a small contribution here for those who care to read it:
Step 1 Unconscious Incompetence - when you dont know how much you dont know.
Step 2 Conscious Incompetence - when you realize how much you dont know.
Step 3 Unconscious Competence - when you dont realize how much you do know.
Step 4 Conscious Competence - when you know how much you know. (I believe at this stage you can teach)
When I meet new people I get the impression I'm not someone you'd easily forget but I suppose its only because of that, that I get lucky... and thats exactly how I see it now... LUCKY!
There's no tactic or skill to my game other than one stupid thing I to do be remembered, I give everyone I meet a plastic Army Man. Other than that, it seems that sometimes I say the right things and others I blow it.
So here I am, I don't mind making physical changes and trying new things, infact I enjoy it, but I really just want to build on who I am already, and hopefully being able to help others.
Looking forward to meeting you all!
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| Finchy | PostPosted: Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:27 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Wed Jul 23, 2008 9:52 am Posts: 36 | | oh and please let me know what you think about the Army man thing, lame or not?
I started off using it as a shit test, I'll say something seriously like I've got a very special gift for you and i hope it means as much to you as it does to me blah blah blah... build up a bit of suspence and then drop an army man in her hand and laugh.
Doesnt have to be an army man obviously, but something random seems to create a bit of interest and they always want to know more... keeping it a secret is a good way to keep her attention.
Maybe use it to get her full attention before DHV?
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