Pick Up is an art, just like painting or learning to play an instrument... or in my personal case, getting an education to make money. You can either use the art to do good to the world or bad to it, it doesn't make transform you into anything, it just extends your already established personality socially.

If you're a fucking asshole, you will use it like an asshole. If you're not, you won't. That's that.

Me, I look at picking up the same way I look at making money. What's my view on making money? I want to be so financially secured that I don't even have to worry about making money anymore and have time to enjoy more meaningful things in my life. Freedom is what I'm after, financially and romantically. It should be what you're after as well.

some real interestin shit here

I was just talking about the fact that some people get obsessed with pickup and develop a different personna, different altogether to what they really are as a person which is to some extent good...

on one hand...
it's good to get confidence
it's good to be more communicative
it's good to influence people emotionally, to be spontaneous, creative, original, authentic

but on the other hand i think
it's bad to be fake (using lies and routines), bad not only for morals/ethics but for game as well... a connection is only done when it's genuine, authentic... i.e. true feelings are being exposed so that other people can connect to them!


it's bad because it teaches you to approach girls just to warm up... i only approach the women i like best and find interesting... personality-wise as well... those are the best interactions

it's bad that teaches you, you have to be something that you're not... an actor, playing the mystery, style part ... when you should use your own stories, life experiences and values and dreams and direction...

you should develop your own stuff and use that...

the game should be natural not canned...

life is natural, relationships are natural...

why is this game so damn complicated...

when it's so much easier to seduce girls?

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Spoken like a true person that has no idea what goes on here.

All this site is, is social dynamics. Adjustments you can make to improve your social interactions with people. These are basic things, such as not appearing too needy, good body language... everything that a woman does and doesn't want. There are rehearsed lines some people use, but only because they are new at this and it's easier than using your own right away. And these lines, by the way... all they are, are conversation pieces. Or ways to communicate good things about yourself to someone that might not know you well enough.

Assuming people cheat on their girl friends and stuff is just naive. The majority of people on here, are on here to improve a deficiency they have in their life - social interaction. You should be less judgmental and ask yourself what's going on here, that's any different from any woman's magazine on the market. It's the same thing.

Ditto. Though I believe Yay won't be joining us again anytime soon. Mod's should send her a notification email .....on the other hand, forget it.....waste of time.

haha

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you mean Yay, right?

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