Ok guys i try keep it brief.

Girl i met 3 months ago in club i K-closed her and left it at that she is friends with some people i work with never talked to her after. She adds me on facebook 2 weeks ago shes at university now and had broke up with bf like month before i k-closed her in club.

Anyway we get talking shes like oh you should come down and visit me etc after running game on her...we've had sex talk ie her saying i should come down keep her warm that kind of pointless sex inuendo talk.

Everything been going good tonight except for end of convo and here it is.

Her:Come see me at uni soon!
Me:Sure probably next week.Her:
Why next week?
Me:Cause im not busy with work and university
Her: lol not cause you wanna then?
Me: I do but i can't just not show up to work
Her: If you dont want too you dont have too
Me: Its not question whether i want too or not just when im free

She says blah blah gotta go sleep right before she logs off she drops me this line

"I wanna know wat u really want from me

x"

So guys? tips on next steps?

Edit: shud prob adds beforehand discussing how she would be miserable on valentines day cuz shes lonely and doesn't have somebody, so this line could have been brought on by her emotions stemming from valentines day.

If you're serious, pick a day and stick to it. "Next week" is the equivalent to "next month"... Nonspecific. Noncommittal. You're brushing her off.

Also, stop pussyfooting around. She thinks you're toying with her, and to me that's what it sounds like... She may also have self esteem/insecurity issues...

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I think your right, i toyed with her a bit but not overly, reason of course keep her interested. But i think insecurity issues may plan in too as if im going to fuck her and cut her off.

I also gave her a day that bit of convo just says next week, i stated to her next thursday earlier in convo and yesterday i think.

But i still need something to give to that reply she shot me. I personally dont want relationship if that what shes gunning for but does want sex off me proven earlier, but i dont want to be put into relationship category.

Dude,,, don't get too wrapped around the wagon wheel over texts. Remember, texts are a horrible way of communicating, since we can't hear the tone inflection in someone's voice or read their body language it's very easy to send or interpret the wrong thing.

plus, look at it from her end:
"Her: If you dont want too you dont have too
Me: Its not question whether i want too or not just when im free

That's not a very playful response. I would have gone with something like:

Her: If you dont want too you dont have too
Me: You know what I want.. hee hee

Why does this belong in the relationships section?

Sometimes you HAVE to be afc.

Tell her everything she wants to hear. That way you get to rail her.

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@ Smartass: well put, and you are completely right. You keep blowing this girl off, yet you might still be leading her on. If you are interested in her, hang out with her. If not, stop wasting her time....is basically what she wants to know



Be straightforward. And if you want to hang out and fool around but don't want a relationship, make sure she knows that too. leading girls on....not cool.

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