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you have to get attention with out making it obvious to her. dementstrate higher value. when you pass her in the office or cubicle. tell her she has something food on her face or crap in her eye.

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-Ant B.

KINO!

That is a good way to go from casual chit chatting to a more serious relationship type thing. Just start with nice normal touching while you talk and slowly work it up from there. The more IOI's you get the farther you can go with it.

Someone on here may have a better option but I am guessing that you don't really touch her much at all do you? No touchie= No relationship. That simple. Seriously, think about it.

Lol no there has been no touching of any kind yet. like i said before EVERY guy that works at the office hits on her all day everyday (shes gorgeous, def a 10). and i never wanted to be on the same list as them. so im playing it extremely safe. maybe a little too safe?

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The trick is to get on her radar without the obvious hitting on her. Magic isn't only slight of hand but of the mind.

Be the one guy that talks to her and doesn't interject about having drinks on Friday.

I am guessing that most contact with her would be at her desk - ie she is sitting down and you stand? Do not lean in! That puts up a defensive mindset immediately in her - remember she is used to 35 jerks a day doing that and they usually hit on her with some dumb assed remark. Squat on your haunches - put your head below her eye level. Puts her in a position where she feels control.

Then take that from her by telling her you have a date - need advice on where to take a hot Asian woman in your town. She is going to wonder why that hot Asian woman isn't her. Leave it at that. Next day its an easy neg about how it didn't work so well.

As a mortgage broker - you know, economically, that scarcity drives up price. You need to show her you are worth pursuing. Real or not she needs to thing people WANT to date you and she is going to wonder what is so great and why you haven't asked her yet.

This one probably isn't going to be a one day pick up - lay some ground work - you KNOW you will have opportunity to continue the game (that is all it really is) as she has to be there every day.

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

why in the fucking world would you wanna get with a 30yr old asian???!!!

I already scored a colleague once, she's also the hottest girl where we work, and yes, she too is a constant focus of attention. Eventually, we actually dated for a while. How did I achieve that? By not trying. She got frustrated that I wouldn't give her attention.

Stand out. Don't be like the unimaginative fools who take the obvious choice of straight up hitting on her. Keep your distance. In fact, you can even make fun of the other guys approaches to gain value. And make it so that she'll be the one who wants to get closer to you.

Don't be an obvious 22 year old boy trying to score the older woman, be a man who knows his own value.

dude, you have no clue how amazing she is, and its not just her looks, its her personality that makes her look even hotter. you know how some girls might be pretty but their personalities make them less good looking in your eyes? well shes awesome inside and out.

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