Hi all,

I'm new to the community.

I'm currently in a LTR but excited about learning the PUA lifestyle. The only thing that bothers me is this...the PUA has a lot of sex with random women. Aren't you at high risk of catching HIV? And you can't really use condoms for oral sex.

How do you maintain a PUA lifestyle and still be safe? What are harm reduction stratagies. This mindset keeps me from meeting more women. I'm getting oneitis because at least I know my partner does not have HIV.

Thanks.
-Obsessed

Hey there sweetie, you've got two misinterpretations I'd like to correct here:

1. PUAs do NOT necessarily have sex with random women.

This is what you commonly see being perpetuated, mostly outside the community and by guys like Mystery. Do some PUAs sleep with a new girl every night? Yes. Do all of them? Hell No. We get guys coming in here who want MLTRs, LTRs, casual dating or whatever else you can think of. Learning Pick-Up doesn't mean you HAVE to go sticking your dick in something new every night.

2. Condoms CAN be used for Oral Sex.

Honey, what do you think flavored condoms are for?
If you're concerned about condoms for GIVING head it's very simple. Tear/cut the ring off a condom and tear/cut down the side so you have a nice sheet of latex. Make sure the flavored side faces you, otherwise you payed for nothing and she risks a Yeast Infection.

Now then, I have one more issue with your post.
You're in an LTR,yet you're starting to learn PU to meet more women?
I'm sorry to be nosey but does your girlfriend know about this?
And if she doesn't know, why not?
And if she doesn't know, is that because you're planning to cheat on her, or to break up with her just practice PU?
And if the latter is true, then you need to give your head a firm shake. There's nothing wrong with learning to be a stronger, more confidant person. But if all you want is to get laid and you plan to break up with an LTR JUST TO GET LAID you're, frankly, stupid.
We get boys coming in here everyday wishing they could be in your shoes. When they get an LTR, they donm't stop practicing, but they let thier girlfriend know that they're a social artist, or what have you and they keep TALKING to people, but they either don't have an intention to fuck the people they're talking to, or they do and that's a PRE-ARRANGED tenant of their LTR.

So I think you may need to give your head a shake and ask WHY you want to learn this.
Is it strictly self-improvement, or are you looking for the skills to cheat on your girlfriend?

Cinnamon

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Really, STDs are FAR less common than people make them out to be.

As long as you wear a condom for the main sex bit, you're pretty safe. And since you should only be doing it with girls that look upkept, the chances are REALLY LOW.


plus: The law considers having sex with someone, when you have HIV without telling them, MURDER.

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Sexual assault actually. And it's only unprotected sex.

Not QUITE as bad, but still pretty bad.

Cinnamon

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But nonetheless, STDs are uncommon and most are easily curable.

If you've read 'I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell' it's about a guy who's had sex with hundreds of girls and never gotten anything.

When was the last time you heard of a good PUA catching any STDs?

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This is a ridiculous thread. Just because you are pick up artist doesnt mean you loose responsibility.

That question is equally applicable to people outside the pua community

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Ehi, guys.

Unfortunately there's still a problem. If a PUA really likes cunnilingus, nothing can protect him from HIV risk (just a barrier obtained by a condom... but, you know, using it is not so satisfying!)

What should a PUA do? He meets a wonderful girl, really desires to feel her pussy in his mouth and he is forced to give up.

What is your opinion? I wouldn't accept the risk, and this is a problem, because I feel limited.

use 2 condoms at once.

So you would make a cunnilingus with a latex barrier, wouldn't you? Ok, I like other PUAs opinions.

KristalNachte has the best reply.
Cinnamon Spice, it depends on the country/law.

My rule: The only time I wouldn't use a condom is if she was my wife and she wanted to get pregnant.

My 2nd rule: I never practice cunninlingus on a one night stand (random women). Never.

I have had many sexual partners and completely clean. Although, I tend to go after fairly upkept, high class professional women.

Thank you, Basherdurch. I really appreciate your post. Can I ask you if practicing cunnilingus on a one night stand is something you don't like to do or something you don't do for security?

I've read somewhere that guys who have no skill at getting women, face a greater risk of living a long dull life, with them either dying alone or marrying the first fat bitch to get them laid.

If I have to chose between that and the risk of getting an STD, then the choice is really obvious.

you cant get HIV/AIDS by receiving oral sex

Yes, but doing it on a girl is a risk. What a pity: if you see a beautiful girl with a short skirt, how can you resist, how can you avoid making her a cunni?!

There are somethings called condom's, if you do not want to use them take the risk.
And i mean come on for real. that's life you might get out now and get ran over. that's part of life.

“If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything.”

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