Alright, so Im new to the game and managed to hook this 30yr old female whos an HB9, the thing is that She has 10 years of age on me, which also means 10 years exp. I dont think I need to really IOD her or neg her but Im afraid if i dont and if i play it too nice ill come off as an AFC and lose her completely,plus he makes it hard to IOD her and to neg her because she is always giving me IOI's and always jumping through hoops for me (which sounds great but Im havent been running game on her anymore) But Im starting to get a little comfortable and Im afraid to neg her because she is older so I feel shes a little more fragile and I dont want to come off as immature. Im afraid this might be a test in itself to try and get me comfortable and lower my guard. Ive already closed with her but I want to maintain my Aplha male status in the relationship I just dont know wich direction to go.

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Reverendbojangles

You can stop running game on her now that you have closed. Figure out what what it is she likes about you and continue to do that. If you want to keep the upper hand of any relationship, you have to be willing to walk away. The person less willing to leave is the one who gets stuck jumping through all the hoops for the other one. Congrats on the cougar before age 21...

hey thanks man. Im definetly going to keep that in mind. I almost feel like cougars should fall into the category of fools luck because their in that state in their life when their slut defense is pretty much done with and they just want to get laid so its hard to tell if my game is up or if im just in the right place at the right time.

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Reverendbojangles

Odds are she has HPV. A condom does nothing to protect you from it. So, when you pull out your pee-pee maching one morning and see a few painful growths on it don't worry. Just make an appointment with a doctor and tell him about what you have been banging.

Your choice. Just giving you the other side of the coin. Information is key.

Best of luck with whatever you decide.

no HPV thats for sure. I think that she just likes me, after I hooked her I stopped running game on her. I mean once in a while Ill still use a little game but whats between us now is strictly natural.

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Reverendbojangles

lol stupid man, very funny

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