The problem i have with females i really like is i try too hard not offend since i really want them. But then i can get laid easy by girls im only midly interested in. Like the more i like a girl the more i friend zone it.

Two weeks ago i was dating this chick i had no interest in having a real relationship. So i didnt even bother taking her out, i just ask her to come over and watch a movie with me and i kept trying to get in her pants. After 3 dates i got her top off and was rubbing her vag but i decided to cut it off and stop talking her since she wouldnt have sex yet which meant she wanted a relationship. I could of probably got sex within the next few dates but im not an asshole. To hit and quit someone that takes sex seriously.

After blowing that girl off i went onto myspace and messaged this girl i had a crush on for two years. So i went on a date with her on thurs and i thought she was absolutely freaking amazing. But at the movies i didnt get the balls to hold her hand or put my arm around her or anything. Since it was a first date and stuff. So at the end of the date, i was thinking DO NOT FRIEND ZONE. So she gave me a mild hug and was about to walk away but i pulled her back and kissed her.

So i saved myself. But im worried i agreed with her too much and stuff. It's like with most girls i just try to get in their pants by 3 dates or they are out. But this girl i would go for months without having sex with her and that is VERY rare for me to find a girl i would consider doing that. But the problem is i get too scared to offend because i like her so much. Except that girls like that which is why i get in lots of girls pants that i blow off. Crap there is no real question here just ranting.

I'm worried if im too aggressive with her like i em with other girls ill scare her off but if im not agrressive ill lose her too. Tricky situation.

You are a lucky man. I am still searching for that girl.

I'm in the same boat as you. My game totally changes once i start liking a girl, not in a good way either. I start feeling cautious about how i act around her, over analyze everything i do and say, because of the fear of losing her trust or losing her all together. It sucks cause I really don't want to feel or act that way but i do, and i have no idea on how to overcome it and just act like i would if i didn't like this particular girl.

it seems like we are all alike, i try to avoid this also. what i do is right from the beginnig tell her what i feel about her. if you like her that much that you would wait a long time before you have sex, let her know that, tell her you care about her, dont let ANY friend "talk or act", take over you aready kissed her and im sure she knows you like her. now its up to you to tell her you want to be more than friends ...Good luck

If you want the girl, go after her, stop being a wus , women want sex more than we do dont let the bullshit in your mind trick you. Thats what being in the friends zone is all about. Caring too much about what she might think about you, so you are scared to make a move. STEP UP. Women will appreciate it. Yes im being blunt. its how i learned.

After the date that night she texted me and said "thanks i had a good time" So the next day i asked, her if she wanted to hang out this weekend. She said she wanted to but was really busy with a bridal shower and birthday. So she did respond but kind of blew me off at the same time. So i didnt text her all weekend since i didn't want to seem needy. I was hoping she might send me a text or something but didn't. So i'll probably text her tomorrow asking how her weekend was.

I'm over analyzing this way too much though because i really like her. It would be great if this worked out. But her lack of texting me so far is not a good sign.