ok so i went out on a date with some girl w/e i was talkin to her for a while weve kissed a few times blah blah blah...so all is good (so i thought) i was getting mixed emotions from her so i asked my other friend (girl) to do some detective work and find out what she really thought of me...turns out she dosnt think she has enough time to commit to me (acting, recording music) and that shes kinda attracted to another guy....so once my friend tells me this im like ok now i wont go out of my way to talk to her (i used to walk her to class, initiate some of the convos w/e) so now i dont even go outa my way to talk to her like i dont even text her or anything when i see her i just smile and say hi...im not a total dick to her any more but i dont talk to her as much (she dosnt know that i know what my friend told me) but when i freeze her out she always ends up texting me and like when id be in the same enviornment with her at school id like be talking to her and the group of friends were in and id turn my back to her and shed try to get my attention and when id walk away shed follow me w/e....so what should i do guys? what do u think of my situation?

i think that u have her... U are ignoring her( well just giving here almost nothing of your attention) is u know that when u give her your attention she start to like another guys, why u dont play with that? give her attention one day, then don do it for 2 days or something like that... idk maybe that work maybe not i am not an expert

Your situation isn't too out of the ordinary. What the hell do you think goes on in a girl's mind when she thinks, "I like this guy over another guy . . ."? Or in fact when she thinks, "I like these shoes better than those shoes . . ."

No matter how much they try justify their decisions, underneath it all, they have no clue why they go for one thing or another. . . but YOU SHOULD. And this is why our game works.

You've got the "denial" part of this game down. Now, you've to think up some incredible real life events that you can share with her. (And yeah, this would also include INCREDIBLE sex but don't limit it to that . . .

People often mistake the advice "don't be clingy" to mean, ignore her. This is untrue. When you see her, you show her an incredible time. Other times, just go about your everyday life and don't bother her. So that when she doesn't see you and thinks of you, her memory is only filled with incredible FUN. This is what keeps them calling, calling, calling.

If you dilute those emotions with "every day chatter", you'll just be another guy who offers "every day chatter".

makes alot of sence kasabi thanks for the advice