It seems like getting girls, picking up at a club, talking to, getting number, etc. has gotten a lot easier
- just gain confiedence...look at yourself in the mirror, and tell yourself that their are literally 3 billion girls out there. so it doesnt matter if you get denied.keep your head up =)
- i used to be scared to talk to girls, meet new ones, etc.
now its really easy.
Talk to me if anybody need HELP!!

I need help. Im afraid of rejection. Like if I get rejected I feel that it will happen over and over again. I went on 1 bed date in 2008 in May. After that I decided to take the rest of the year off from trying to meet girls. Now that its 2009 Im back on! Gonna give it another shot.

I think it is safe to say that in this case you are your own worst enemy.

But makes it more difficult is that this game defies logic. You have to be witty

I agree and like what your saying but can you tell me a little more about me being my own worst enemy?

I ment it in general, but when it comes to Pick up, in my case at least, the fear of denial and my self-awareness hold me back. I sometimes choose the easy way out, not the right way out (with the girl that is ). Its not the alpha male or girl with the bitch shield holding me back, it is all me.

I am the master of my own game, and I am not taking the responsibility.
But you know why they call it a game?
Because they expect you to lose at first.

i forgot whose manual or ebook i read but stud is precisely RIGHTTTT
instead of making them the prize becuase there are 3 billion other hotties out there the man that is their dream guy is rare, he is the prize, in other words you and your skills make you rare, you are the prize among the 6 billion afc guys
when i talk to girl i think to myself damn shes one of 3 billion how boring, lol but ofcourse thats for approach excitement reasons

I know why you are probably getting rejected so many times... Its because of your fear of rejection... What you need to do is work on your inner game and overcome that fear... I know a really good book that helps you reach that level of inner game that you overcome your fear... Pm me for the book... Trust me this will change your view on girls and will BOOST your confidence extremely

so after getting denied...u can either put your head down and B***H about it, or you can gain more confidence. getting denied by a girl (weather its at a club, for a dance,bar, or overall anything) should just raise you confidence level one more bar because you just witnessed a girl miss pout on something really great (having you). you cant catch a fish unless you fish. and if you do your part of fishing, you set the right bait, cast at the right spot, that "big fish" your looking for will come along.

Although im getting better I find EVERYONE now matter how good of a pua you are this is always a proble.

Things I find work well is;

1: Open a set of ugly girls run lots of routines.. 6 or less wont be so negative towards you and will boost your confidence.

2: Avoid Energy drinks (caffine) this increases heart rate which is the core of anxiety.

3: BEER although this isnt a good one, it helps me so much. I find the more I pick up the less i need to drink and Its now at 4 beers

4:have a W*nk before you go out. I find the less horny i am, the less mistake i make and I dont get over talkative and' trying'

5: Use wingmen- knowing that your mate is nearby ready to help make things soooooooo much easier.


--Perhaps we could start a thread and get some ideas going.. there might already be one, but Im still learning and navigating around the site.---

Do you have any more?