Hey everyone. I'm still a relative newcomer to the PUA game. I'm 19 and a sophomore in college. Usually when I go out to party, I go to house parties and apartment parties, because generally they are less crowded and you feel less cramped, plus its easier to get alcohol. However, some girl friends from my dorm building always go to a certain frat, and today they invited me to come along with them.

I'm pretty nervous about going. I know it should seemingly be easy to use PUA skills at a frat party. But for some reason, I have a real trepidation about going. Reason being, its harder to get alcohol and I tend to open up more when I have at least a slight buzz. Plus the girls I'm going with tend to hook up with guys fairly quickly. Also, the guys there tend to be like a pack of wolves that pounce on girls. I've always tended to view frat guys as pretty sleazy, but they seem to do really well with girls. Plus in large group situations in general, I tend to freeze up. I know there will be a ton of beautiful girls there. So I was wondering if anyone had some advice on how to deal with my current anxiety and nervousness. Are there any particular openers or routines that work especially well in these frat type situations? How can I escalate quickly? I'd really appreciate any tips or advice that could help me have a good time at this party and hopefully meet some girls.

Edit: Forgot to mention, I also get nervous when it comes to dancing. I realize its basically just grinding and all that, but I get nervous just going upto a girl and grinding on her. Girls don't really have this problem. They just grab a guy and dance with him. But I always feel really nervous and awkward when it comes to dancing and finding a girl to dance with. I don't want to be the loner standing on the edge of the dance floor watching his friends have fun. Any tips for this would be great helpful as well.

ive been testing different things at frat parties for a bit now and ive come up with the best tips for it that i can find.
--BEERPONG is your best friend. There will always be beerpong tables at these parties and they help you ALOT. In one instance, inviting a girl to be on your team gives you time to talk to her, show her you can have fun, and escalate kino from hugs and high fives when you guys make a cup.
--Secondly, when playing beerpong, be slightly obnoxious to garner attention. people WILL notice you and think you are the life of the party if you look like fun. trust me.
--Frat boys do well at the parties because its THEIR party. They have a lot of fun at them because their surrounded by their friends and hot girls. So you can do one of two things. You could make friends with them so when they talk to girls, you talk to girls get it? Or, and i like this one better, out-party them. They have fun, you have more fun, or at least pretend you are. Girls look for the fun guys at parties cuz they want to have fun too. Trust me, it will work if you do it correctly

-Grappler

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Never fear, I is here. I've got you covered, bro. I've always found one thing that really helps at a frat party is looking like a total maniac. You also want to seem like you have a really dated idea of what this shit should be like.

Here's what you do. Don't shave for at least four days before the party. Also, don't shower for at least two. You wanna be a little sweaty looking, not smelling like ass.

Find a white bed sheet and cut it into a toga. Get a bottle of everclear and rub it all over your face. Also, chug the shit out of it. Find someone with an old, shitty acoustic and bring that with you.

When you walk in, be playing a song(it doens't matter if you know how to play or not, just put your fingers on some random frets and form a chord) because this will get you a ton of attention.

Women love a sloppy, crazy drunk. Also, if you don't have a receding hairline, shave your hair at the temples a little bit. It gives you that Bill Murray vibe.

why not drink 2-3 beers or 100 grams of liquor at home before meeting, been there done that

its pretty easy to run game at frat parties, just be cautious of amogs. Try to make friends with the guys first the ladies second, but definately be ready to get amogged so have a game plan, also keep peacocking more subtle at frat parties because that breeds amogging. to me thats the hardest part..

Frat parties are good places to go out and meet girls. In your situation at a frat party, I would do two things:

1) Befriend some of the brothers there. It is their party, as was said earlier, so get cool with them. If you are cool with them, there is less of a chance to be AMOGed; in fact, they may introduce you to some of the girls there. I've made great friends doing that, and being invited to future parties is a plus.

2) You said you are going with a few girls, so use them as social proof. I'm not sure how close you are with these girls, but I have female friends that come to clubs with me and my guy friends regularly; I am able to dance with the girls I go with and we are really touchy with each other too. This can build some social proof when you first get to the party in your case - guys will see you with girls and girls will wonder why you have a girl on each arm.