| ok guys, tonight was my official start. i went out armed with some good openers. jealous gf, cologne opener, but the only time i actually opened ended up being spontaneous. the tv at this bar was always ESPN, so i opened a 4-set with "how do u girls feel about clubs always having espn" it was successful but i had nothing to transition with. these girls were not that good, just barely bearable, so my buddies pulled me out, and amazingly, later on, these 2 girls, Liz and Karina , opened me after i "thought" i had failed their 5-set earlier, and this was perfect for me. it gave me confidence, and they followed me all night. The only problem was that I chose Liz as my target, but found out later she had a BF. I had multiple IOIs from both these girls, and Liz ended up buying drinks for me, and both followed me from Boston back to Cambridge, but i lost Karina to some other guy due to focusing on Liz, and Liz had something at 10 am, plus she had already volunteered her # ,even though she had a BF. Ultimately, I am satisfied with my first sarge. Liz and Karina were both interested, and Liz ended up buying me drinks, despite her BF.
However, I had several blank points, where I needed conversation filler, and although I had routines running in my head (ESP, 5-lies) I didn't feel like they were appropriate for some reason. I definitely reverted to some AFC stuff about school and stuff. Had I made things happen quicker, I could have done better. I might have just made friends with these girls.
Anyways, this is a bit unclear, since I am still drunk. If anyone sees any glaring solutions, etc, let me know, otherwise I will try to clarify this story later.
Thanks,
Dan
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