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 Post subject: What Am I doing?
PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 4:28 pm 
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I went Out for THE FIRST time with my Best Friend Sarging, but I acted Like Ive already done it and Taught him a Bunch of things From "The Game" That I understand Only From Logic.

I gave Him support and all The confidence he needed.
At the End of the day he Had 10Phone numbers and 14 Email's
( his First time )
I think he could Be a Natural, but thats just me.

I, On the Other hand Didnt Talk to anybody.
i dont know why but I have this Like Block thats not telling me Ill get rejected.
Its more around the Lines as "What Am I doing?"

Anyone with this ( Or had this ) Problem that Can help me?


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PostPosted: Fri Feb 06, 2009 6:54 pm 
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I went Out for THE FIRST time with my Best Friend Sarging, but I acted Like Ive already done it and Taught him a Bunch of things From "The Game" That I understand Only From Logic.

I gave Him support and all The confidence he needed.
At the End of the day he Had 10Phone numbers and 14 Email's
( his First time )
I think he could Be a Natural, but thats just me.

I, On the Other hand Didnt Talk to anybody.
i dont know why but I have this Like Block thats not telling me Ill get rejected.
Its more around the Lines as "What Am I doing?"

Anyone with this ( Or had this ) Problem that Can help me?
The problem is very simple. You are going into your head too much in field and thinking. The time for thinking and studying and figuring out strategies is at home. When you are out there, it's time to make moves and get into it.

That is why the 3 second rule works. It forces you to open and jump in feet first. The more you think about it, the harder it gets. Typically, by the time you work enough courage to go up and talk to her, the opportunity is gone, and she walks away or something.

Then you promise yourself it won't happen again. You make the promise right then. Sure enough you think to yourself some more, and next thing you know you mind f-ck yourself again and again.

Bottom line, less thinking and more making moves.

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And to piggyback off of JSmooth just a bit here, start with 6.5s and tell yourself you wouldn't do anything with them or be interested anyway, and go from there. This takes a lot of the pressure off and prevents you from getting intimidated by 8s+

You'll be less likely to over think, hesitate, etc.

Streak


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And to piggyback off of JSmooth just a bit here, start with 6.5s and tell yourself you wouldn't do anything with them or be interested anyway, and go from there. This takes a lot of the pressure off and prevents you from getting intimidated by 8s+

You'll be less likely to over think, hesitate, etc.

Streak
Great Point! Starting lower and just getting use to going through the motions and the steps is a great way to learn. Then when you are more comfortable with your own process, GAME ON!

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You should put two thoughts in your head in order to kick away this 'block':

Everybody Dies
In the end, you will be dead, and she will be dead.
If you hit on a girl, it means nothing at all in your life.

You Will Probably Not See Her Again
self explaining.

be cool 8)

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You should put two thoughts in your head in order to kick away this 'block':

Everybody Dies
In the end, you will be dead, and she will be dead.
If you hit on a girl, it means nothing at all in your life.

You Will Probably Not See Her Again
self explaining.

be cool 8)

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I feel like a jerk when I comment to ppl with advices when I am 16 and only got in to seduction art, but hey.. I write what seems reasonable from my exp. Don't be mad. =]


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 7:56 am 
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Girls are basically insecure guys with vaginas.

There is nothing inherently easier about hitting on uglier girls as they often think to themselves, "I'm not that pretty. Why is he hitting on me? He's just fucking with me." On the other hand, hot, tall chicks are often tired of not getting approached properly as most guys just "give it a twirl" thinking that they'll get shot down.

The point is . . . everything is in your head.

What you can try is the "total utter" platonic approach. Just chat with them as if you're trying to recruit the 4th guy for your golf group. you'll still get plenty number closes this way and you can step it up later.

The sooner you realize that a conversation is JUST a conversation, you'll be better able to get your game on a roll.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:26 am 
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Logic is Logic on that note, Approaching a girl with No Interest is Very Very easy for me Since Im going to Have no interest in her "Vagina"

But when You go Out for Poon or Numbers
its a very different aura.

Girls Are very insecure, that Ive learned from alot Of my friends that tell me things.

its not as If I dont know the 3 second Rule.

More like my mind is racing at 5 thoughts per second, and I really Just get that Question "What am I doing?" and It kills My confidence, Or how should I say, the "desire" to do what I want.

Thank you for your replys I found my error, Still Now, I need to Find Out how to Stop thinking so much as Jsmooth said.

Does anyone know How to clear the Mind?
( Not resorting to alcohol... hehe.. )


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