| petenana, here's the thing:
Like all the others said..girls think about sex JUST as much (or MORE) as us men do, but I'd like to explain WHY you think there's a difference.
It's because of social programming my friend:
- When YOU, a guy, are dating multiple women, have slept with 2 trillion women and so on..you're the MAN! You're the dude! You the sh*t!
- When a woman, ANY woman, is dating multiple women, has slept with lots of men and so on..she's considered to be a SLUT.
So by doing exactly the same thing as us, namely dating multiple people at once or getting lots of experience in the love department, they are bad and we are good. So with the same sexual liberty, they're supposed to suck (no pun intended, lol) and we're supposed to rock.
OFF COURSE they won't tell you about how they're always thinking about sex, that they'd like to do it as much as possible, try all kinds of exciting places where they could get caught..because they DON'T want to be seen as a slut. Gossip can be a silent killer when it comes to this area, trust me: there's lots of gossip which will make her ashamed of showing her face in any given place.
They HAVE to be more silent about their desires, or face the consequences. The origin of this "princess, naive, untouched sweet angel" like aura probably comes from church: the holy virgin, chastity, etc.
Think about it next time when you want to be sexual around them, make sexual comments and so on..but don't "because it's rude."
Here's a juicy secret: I know for a fact that although they think about as much about sex as we do, women CRAVE satisfaction a LOT more then we do..because of how WE are during sex.
The idea of sex that the average man has is: go in, drop your load, drop out..seriously, 80% of the men out there are satisfied because of having an orgasm themselves, but nearly ALL women WON'T reach a climax just by screwing her brains out. I'm talking about going down on her here: hardly any man does, while THAT will make her cum..
Think about it: isn't it kinda like some torture? You tease her, turn her on, you give her all kinds of sensations deep inside her, making her really..REALLY hot and bothered, only to NEVER let her have an orgasm!
Do you understand what this means? It means that 80% of the men that are doing that..have WOMEN that aren't being satisfied but CRAVE to be..that's a lot of fulfillment that could be done right there.
So my take on the whole thing is: I help women, every friggin' step of the way, to be sexually liberated and to be satisfied for once! Think about it.
Best, D.
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