You're so weird = I like you ?



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 2:36 pm 
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There is obliviously two ways this can happen and it really depends on the context and the tone of the girl. It is very possible that you are seriously weird and creeping the girl out but in this case you will definitely hear it in her voice. ie: YOU ARE SO WEIRD... you'll probably see and hear the disgust in her face and voice... but in the playful "You're so weird"... laughing, giggling kind of way... I believe it means "I like you.... a lot" ...

I was flirting with this girl I've known for a long time who I believe likes me but currently has a boyfriend. I made a couple of jokes and twice in the night, she laughed and told me "You're so weird".

Can I take this as an IOI?


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 2:40 pm 
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to be honest, i dont think so.

i guess weird is never good, but i wouldnt consider this an IOD since she was laughing with you


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yea, i know exactly what you are talking about, it is an IOI. I had a girl call me immature and it was an IOI.
Weird can also mean different, interesting in an attractive way


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I'm going to agree that its an IOI, as long as that's in a playful manner.

As said above, the world weird can disguised as a different meaning, being interesting in an attractive way.

I meet a friend of my friend the other week and I'm really sure she likes me, always contacting me etc and the other day she said 'lol your weird :)' in a playful manner, while we were having an interesting conversation. 'Your Interesting and not boring me'

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You just answered your own question by explaining that you're aware of how the context makes a difference... you shouldn't be gaming a girl who has a BF anyway unless the guy is a complete asshole and she needs a real excuse to get rid of him.


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Weird just means that the girl doesn't understand how to handle you. She is not used to someone like you. Weird = Different. Take it as an IOI and move forward.

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You just answered your own question by explaining that you're aware of how the context makes a difference...
So, yes. It's an IOI. I get that giggly "you're weird" comment all the time, and what do I do? I just flirt right back. Then my penis ends up in her vagina somehow.
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you shouldn't be gaming a girl who has a BF anyway unless the guy is a complete asshole and she needs a real excuse to get rid of him.
I disagree on so many levels. Women are not pieces of property that belong to any man. They are human beings who have a right to exercise their free will. "Stealing" someone's gf isn't stealing.

If a girl with a bf wants to have a hot and steamy affair full of orgasmic pleasure, I can give her that. It's the bf's fault for not satisfying her in bed in the first place. If a girl just doesn't like her bf anymore and wants to monkey-branch to another guy (grabbing one branch before letting go of another), that's just fine, too. I won't be her bf but I'll still give her some pleasure and show her the next branch to swing to. Again, it was the bf's fault for not satisfying her in bed in the first place.

There are tons of couples out there that just aren't compatible for one reason or another. If the woman ain't satisfied, I'll know if she's looking for some fun on the side, and I'll gladly give it to her if I'm attracted to her.


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You just answered your own question by explaining that you're aware of how the context makes a difference... you shouldn't be gaming a girl who has a BF anyway unless the guy is a complete asshole and she needs a real excuse to get rid of him.

I like your morals. I also notice you tend to be someone who gives extremely sound advice. Kudos to you, man.


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Since she has a boyfriend, she may be feeling a little guilty about her own feelings. Maybe on a subconcious level, what she's really saying is that she is feeling weird because she likes you so much.

It all depends on the delivery and the body language. But if she was giving you a nice look, while at the same time playing with her hair, I would think it was a good thing.


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Well this senrence might be confusing. It's all about the tone I guess.

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There is obliviously two ways this can happen and it really depends on the context and the tone of the girl. It is very possible that you are seriously weird and creeping the girl out but in this case you will definitely hear it in her voice. ie: YOU ARE SO WEIRD... you'll probably see and hear the disgust in her face and voice... but in the playful "You're so weird"... laughing, giggling kind of way... I believe it means "I like you.... a lot" ...

I was flirting with this girl I've known for a long time who I believe likes me but currently has a boyfriend. I made a couple of jokes and twice in the night, she laughed and told me "You're so weird".

Can I take this as an IOI?

One good advice is to exagerate this like you don't give a shit and say with a playful attitude:

Yeah! You are so right! Actually...you know..I am the king of the weirdos! We all gather once a year and choose the best of us and this year I was chosen to be the king of all. Just wait to see my Star Wars clips collection...you will be so hot abut my weirdness that you will jump on me right there.


ha ha

Take care :D Don't forget the playful attitude!


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Weird is not generally a good thing.

Interesting is what girls will say if they mean weird but want to be polite... This girl is probably a little offput by you but overall thinks your harmless.

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In the movie transformers, that hot girl says it to lebuff's character when she starts to like him


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