| I think you just need to relax, you seem to be very nervous about this situation, when really it has presented itself on a lovely plate for you, this girl is clearly interested in you, so why not just talk to her? The tips and methods in your typical PUA book/guide will tell you how to get this girl attracted to you etc, however, if this is already the case then you don't need to read up on that.
If this girl is already attracted to you then just be yourself, things will escalate naturally this way, you say you have had some nice conversations etc with her, so why change this? It sounds to me like this is an opportunity waiting for you to just take it, grab that bull by the horns!
As for bringing your birthday up, are you having a party? You said you haven't mentioned anything about it, if she said she is coming this was basically just her flirting with you, you responded well to this rather than jumping through her hoops and coming out with something AFC like "I would never not invite you" etc. So well done with that.
May I ask how old you are? As school to me is 16 or younger, if this is the case then why not just tell her straight, for example, if you have no party planned just tell her you are doing something with family, but wouldn't mind letting her treat you to a coffee/cinema/dinner (change according to age suitable) for a belated present, however, if she says no, don't make a big deal out of it, just brush it off and continue with what you are doing, as if it never happened.
- SC
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