Hi Guys (and perhaps even gals),

My first post on here! Been browsing for a while but thought i'd get involved now! I have several questions, specific to the clubbing SPAM i was hoping you could help me out. Just for your convenience i'll list them out to save you having to trawl through paragraphs of text!

1) Take the scenario when in a club and a girl has her back to you and is dancing. I'll split this further into the 2 cases that keep happening to me. In the first she is dancing to my back and in the second she is dancing in front of me having moved into that position.

- How do i know whether her move is deliberate or not on her part, having not made any prior eye contact or anything?

- What would you recommend that i do? Particularly in the second case, am i right in saying touching her hips/waist and dancing from behind without having said anything or made eye or contact is a big no no?

2) Grinding. I see loads of guys pulling it off at will when i go out clubbing. And the thing is im totally lost in this aspect!

- Is it a bad idea for me to initiate grinding without prior eye contact?

- If a girl backs up into you, there is obviously the chance that it isnt deliberate and she is just making more space for he to dance in. How do i figure out if this is the case, or if she is actively showing an interest?

3) Im a uni student. One of my worries (i know its petty) is what others will think of me in rejection or indeed what bystanders will think of me even when i am successul. To elaborate a little, I see the same faces every night when i go out! And see the same faces on a daily basis on campus! This is deffo a confidence issue but how do i over come it?


Thanks guys, i know i've asked alot and so any little advice would be treasured. I kid you not, my story so far has been a major FAIL! Going out clubbing 2/3 times per week, any advice would go a long way believe me!

It sounds like you do a lot of dancefloor game, I personally avoid it due to the sheer amount of cock teases and the fact you can barely talk.

Also if you are initiating grinding then you can't run game all the time, after a while people will think its strange you are bouncing from group to group grinding.
If you go in a more conversation based direction you can run game all night.

Finally you could benefit from something I have been working on it should be ready in a few weeks x

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A fun little thing I learnt: mimick there dances moves in a similar, but funny, way.
Then they're open, they will usually respond in some manner, pull them in, hold them by their belt hoops and make them do a funny dance, you can control them with ease.
Something I learnt from a master

And. . you've then opened non verbally

or. . theres the old mystery method one. . "what dya call that dance? the waffle/2 foot shuffle" etc etc boooooooooring!

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Here is a helpful little video that I found for myself.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrV-jtV7 ... 1&index=46

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