Short answer: For me i use to get laid, i don't think its that hard for me to get in a relationship. But i want to be master playa for my ego.

Long rant: Being 18-28 only happens once. Those are like the most free times of your life and when girls are the most attractive. So to commit yourself to anyone for a significant amount of time is taking a huge risk. Because if i stayed with someone for like 5 years and we broke up that would mean i passed up tons of oppurtunities for one night stands, threesomes, crazy care-free lifestyle. And that would cause me to have a midlife crisis. So im so scared to get in relationships.

But i recently i accident drunkily messaged this girl on myspace i've had a crush on for like 5 years. One of the few girls i can see myself in a long term relationship with. She said she would love to hang out and i'm going on a date with her on thurs. But i could really see myself falling for this girl if this works out and that scares me. Because i look my currently party filled lifestyle and massive amount of friends and i see all of it vanishing. It's as if im killing myself. And giving my life away in order to start a family. And that lifestyle seems soo boring.

I literally didnt message her because i wanted to keep my lifestyle going long as possible. And now i messaged her so there is no turning back since i can't blow her off.

I got in the game to get a better social circle , more friends, and of course girls in MY life.

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im only 19 so im just here to get laid dude

Its just a part of life.... you know alot of people out there who dont even know what PUA are extending such skills and techniques naturally.

Learning the process just better prepares you(especially if you are clueless to begin with).

Sounds like your having buyers remorse as well there blazer...

I came here because I was lonely, now I have found someone I am staying because I love being the centre of attention (see failed rockstar lol) and I can get this on demand by picking up women.
I have also started learning skills that help in other areas of my life, for example I give better presentations now I also get free drinks in a lot of clubs because I have gamed the bar maids woop woop lol

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First off lil hint, you posted this topic under the title : why are you reading PUA - Can you read pickup artist? No. You can read information on pickup.
Its not the same as actually doing it.

I got into it because I was lonely as hell, no success with women or friends.

Thats changed now. I just love being in control of social situations. Im not a control freak - I dont get upset if I lose control or anything, I guess I just like being able to select what I fancy, when I fancy it.

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mostly just meet people and have fun.

out of those 2 choices i'm in the middle.

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First of all, a reality check: judging from the language you used to describe this chick (a "girl on myspace you've had a crush on for 5 years"), my guess is you don't really know dick about her. There are millions of variables that go into making relationships successful or unsuccessful, and there's no possible way you could know whether it would even work between the two of you--that's what dating is for. When you maintain a long-term crush like this, you run a serious risk of idealizing the person to the point where there's no way she could compete with the fantasy you've built up in your mind, making you disappointed and bitter when you find out she's just another person rather than the angelic ray of light from heaven you built her up to be. Quit putting so much pressure on the interaction and just go have fun with her

That said, I have one final piece of wisdom to share as a guy who used to have a world view very similar to yours. Having experienced both sides of the equation, I would happily trade every hookup, fuck buddy, one night stand, literally every sexual exploit in my history in a heartbeat if I could go back in time and NOT fuck it up with the only woman I have ever loved.

Being in a committed relationship is only boring if you make it boring. Think about that.

Your boy,
870

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If you're anything like me, you'll start liking other newer girls more than you like her a week or two after you first have sex with her. It's natural. Nothing to worry about.

870 i agree with you on both points. I probably am idolizing her and she could suck as a person. I guess i'll find out tonight. And on your second point i can also agree with that. Im usually a happier person when im in a relationship. But when im not in one it seems hard to give up the lifestyle for something that might not work and then im left with nothing and old.