IF SHE’S A VIRGIN…HOW TO MAKE HER FEEL GOOD AND WHAT GOES THROUGH HER MIND:


Her thoughts:

Will she do well?
Will she satisfy her man?
Will it hurt?

Here are some tips and strategies to help YOU out:

- Do it in a place where she feels safe, ideally her room.
- Do it at a secure time, when no one will come in.
- Stimulate it in advance.
- Go almost all the way.

Practice the thrusting motions of sex while fully clothed.

Have her give you a hand-job or blow-job so she’ll know what your body does when you have an orgasm.

Have a bright lights “show and tell” session, to allow you to feel secure around each other’s naked bodies.

Plan it, but don’t talk about it being planned, on the actual day that you do it.Stretch the vagina out a lot with fingers in advance.Remember that this is her day: everything within reason should be done how she wants.Spend the day with her beforehand; do something fun but generic.

If you do something complicated, it will become “your” thing to do together forever, due to the association, so make sure it’s something you can stand doing again on any potential anniversaries.Have a special dinner before you “start”.

Nothing that can upset the stomach.

A little amount, even if you’re nervous. You both should stay a little hungry and not feel bloated.Use plenty of lubricant.

Entry should be “missionary” style, this leaves the vagina as wide open as possible. Some women find that placing a pillow under their butts enhances this effect, others have said it doesn’t matter.

If she can do it, she may be best off to do the actual entry herself, but many would rather not. Just make sure this act is accomplished in a way that makes you both happy.

Take everything during the actual intercourse as slowly as possible because you’re trying to make this as easy as you can for her. Try inserting it extremely slowly, go in as far as possible, and be sure to communicate with her during this whole process on at least some level. If it hurts, back off, and try again later. If insertion goes well begin lightly and slowly thrusting in and out, then decide what, if any, variety to add.

There’s no point in getting it over with right away, since it will only hurt the next time, but there is also no need to draw it out.

Take as much time as you need before putting it in. Only when she’s really ready should this be done. I’d recommend asking verbally, and then interpreting that to see if she really means “it’s time now”.

Stay with her afterward. Spend the night, at least. If possible take her to do something spontaneous the next say. Discuss what happened if she wants to, many will not want to until a later time.

Encourage her to talk to other women ahead of time to give her some idea of what to expect.

The unknown means fear, fear leads to tension, tension leads to difficulty relaxing, and difficulty relaxing leads to pain.

Be more or less “in love”. Make sure you’re sharing something, not just getting something for yourself.

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