So im a junior, and this girl is a freshmen. One would only think this would be pretty easy. I hooked up with her at a dance and we were grindin..a few days later i facebook messaged her and we started talking. Weve been texting a pretty decent amount for the past week...and at the beggining i was getting a lot of IOIs. She carried the conversation on a lot, asked me if i had abs (then asked to show her) and told me she was interested in me. But ive asked her for the past two weekends to hang out, and shes always busy. I want to get her for valentines day, and i dont know what to do. I feel like im gradually losing more confidence as i get to like her more, and therefore she is giving me less IOIs. Any good advice on how i can transition into making myself her boyfriend?

When is valentines day?

hmmm.. If she is busy all the time, and yeah.. that happens, maybe try to "force yourself in there".
Text her like "are you home?" and if she says "yes" knock on the door a few minutes later.

You know.. do something so surprising she cannot refuse =]

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Maybe she does in fact have a lot of after school activities... that cross your mind?
Sounds like you said or done something that made her not like you no more.

Did you message her too many times without her messaging you back?

I think you should back-step and remember what attracted this girl to you
in the first place... maybe you were being yourself as in being cocky or
whatever???

Go back to the beginning in your head, maybe write down the whole
scene onto some paper. Replay the whole scene from start (good) to where
it started going down-hill (bad) for you.

I have done this many times, always keep a journal so you can go back
to it and see what you could have done differently to make things work in
your favor.

Many times, you will be able to resolve the issue without having to ask
others for help man..

DO THE WRITING IT OUT ON PAPER THING. YOU WILL BE SURPRISED
WHAT YOU FIND OUT...

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