You may not like this.

You may regret spending thousands on learning about women, or you may be confused and doubting that it really can be that simple.

But after 25 years of dating hundreds of women, I can tell you now, for sure, that when it comes to meeting, dating, and enjoying great girls, there is one sure formula that works. Here it is.

Know in detail what kind of girl turns you on and makes you feel good, better, smarter and stronger.
Find her. Find where she goes and find her there.
Look in her eyes.
Go talk to her using any pretext you like.
Compliment her about something you like about her that will make her smile.
Tease her about something you like about her that will make her smile.
Tell her something real and significant about you.
Learn something real and significant about her.
Take her somewhere where the two of you can be alone.
Kiss her.
Take her somewhere where the two of you can be totally alone.
Bed her.
Hold her.
Kiss her.
Talk to her and listen to her breathe.
Sleep with her.
Lather, Rinse, Repeat...
Every step, Every day, for as long as you want her to be your Lover.



Do this without arguing or overthinking it, and you have the best shot any man can ever have with the best women in the world. And not only do you have a shot at making her happy once, you have the chance to keep her around so you both make each other happy for as long as you want.

reposted from the UCP:
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Sean Messenger
http://LVo3.com

"War is not the answer. Love is."

IMO one of the most simple, profound and often overlooked concepts in the spectrum of attraction... It's amazing how much more likely the type of girls you find yourself 'extra' attracted to will be 'extra' attracted right back to you.

I totally agree, it is just that easy. But to the same extent, I tell people how easy it is to shoot a 3 pointer in basketball (line up and throw the ball) but they still cant do it.
The steps are easy once you have learnt them.
Madals

damn straight.

and everyone wants to learn to shoot the three without learning to shoot from 2 feet from the hoop with good form.

fundamentals first. daily practice. enjoy the process.

results follow.

everything else is just a scam.

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Sean Messenger
http://LVo3.com

"War is not the answer. Love is."

Thats because people want their overall goal but dont want to take the long road and would rather wait for the "magic" line that makes them get what they want quickly.
Yes, no and definatly yes. I personally disagree with setting out daily to practice pick up, if you have to structure flirting into your life its not flirting at all. Flirting is playful, if you force yourself to do something eventually it will become a job rather than something you love. Once that happens you cannot enjoy the process and then what is the point of doing it?

Madals

good point. i didn't mean practice "pickup" every day.

practice making the steps easier, doing whatever works for you. it doesn't always have to be pickup. i mean, you can never get too good at knowing what you really want in a girl, or making eye contact.

just cos you have one step down doesn't mean you stop doing it. ESPECIALLY if you want to keep her around. then you DO need to pick her up every day.

no days off.

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Sean Messenger
http://LVo3.com

"War is not the answer. Love is."

Having been married twice and divorced twice, I will say this part is the most important thing you can do if you want to stay in love with eachother. Nobody ever stops growing or changing (tho those changes may be subtle), and your relationship dies the day you stop sharing yourselves with eachother, and start just living in the same house and putting up with one another.

The first step, knowing what kind of girl will truly make you happy, is the most important thing you can do to FIND your true lover and will give you the most success when it comes to happiness, but its so much easier said than done. Most people cant even fathom what it is they need to be happy, let alone what they would do with it if they ever got it. (yeah, its a line, but its SO SO true.) You have to know yourself pretty damn well to be able to pick the right girl, and for most of us, thats a long learning process fraught with many mistakes.

The other steps, talking to her, kissing her, bedding her... those are the things all the AFC's and newly emerging PUA's are struggling with. Those three steps are pretty much why the whole community ever even got started.

So this advice, its master advice for master PUA's. Its what the multiple PHD's go to learn when they take a sabbatical or hit that seminar where only other outstanding academics in their field are invited.

Still, good advice. Something to aspire to, for the beginners. Something to seriously think about, for those of us who are well on the way.