Ok I am looking for real help in this situation so here it is:

At the football homecoming game one of my friends (a girl) introduced me to this real cute girl. Immidately she stands next to me and like looks up at me and said hey and smiles. Then I just said hey back and asked if she was a freshmen and she said yeah. ( im a junior)Then I said haha freshmen. I talked to my other friend a little bit more ( girl still standing by my side) and then she said we gotta go get our tickets. As they walked away I saw the girl turning her head looking back at me.

So my main question is what can I do to get with this chick? Any holes in this type of situation ? I added her on FB and she said she did not remember me. I guess my real dilemma is that I want a chick that like me for who I am and a chick that I can really actually like who is independent and I think she is the one. I been contemplating to approach and say hey remember we met or whatever, but she doesnt remember me so what can i do? Oh and btw i am asian and she is white , maybe that will be a factor in my pursuit.. what do you guys tihnk? what can i do to get with her ? BTW the friend that introduce me to her i talk to her a lot regularly and stuff.

Some info on the chick is that i heard from my friend she has had A LOT bfs. I also dont want her to like me b/c im a junior(older) or b/c i have a car and all that shit. But my car is really crummy . Anyways to sum this up what is the FIRST step to get with this girl.. like her number ect

any help is appreaciated.

Honey, you're over thinking things.

Your post is all about how you like this girl and you want her to like you too. You're too worried about what you need to do to get that.

No matter how much information you give us, we can't give you a magic spell that will make her like you.

You need to find points of relation and connection with her. Even if she doesn't remember you, go up and show that you remember her. This time, make yourself unforgettable. If she claims not to remember you, fake being mortally hurt. Like she just killed your new puppy. Be cute, be funny and most of all, be bold.

Women make up 51% of the population, don't obsess over just one.

Cinnamon

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Hello man, theres a simple thing that you can do my friend.

Tell her the exact thing you told us here. When you see her, go and sit down next to her and start a conversation. If you remember her name, much better. Talk to her. And get to know her before you start thinking she is the one, because probably she isn't. Just go and talk to her, be yourself, thats all you have to do. If you like her after knowing her, you will have to see if she likes you.

Dont get obsessed, dont be a stalker, dont be creepy. Be natural, chilly.





Cya.

So first step is to approach to her to talk to her and act morally hurt? Any more details on this? Sounds like a good idea

Walk up to her and be like "Hey X!"
She'll look at you like "Who the hell are you?"
Then you stumble back with a hand on your heart. "You....you don't remember me? After all the years we shared? The promises? You promised me forever!", collapse in false-tears for about two seconds then stand up and say "I'm Y(insert your name here). We met Z(where you met)."

And then roll from there.

Cinnamon

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Good one lol.

You are a new person to her.. Just let her know you exist, in any way possible.
Be you.

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I feel like a jerk when I comment to ppl with advices when I am 16 and only got in to seduction art, but hey.. I write what seems reasonable from my exp. Don't be mad. =]

I probably won't make it that dramatic.. but it will be hard to just approach.. but ima do it anyways..

Im going to move this to "opening/approaching" section