im a Junior in high school and i think I'm falling for my best friend, i met this girl beginning of Freshman year and we've always been best friends, i mean non-stop texting, calling, and just talkin about life. Over the years we have both had a few relationships ( that is the reason i join the PUA society to hook up with other girls) and they have gotten serious. But the past couple months we've both been single and i have noticed her a little more than a Best Friend. i think she has too, but I'm not sure if the signs she gives are " hey i like you more than a friend too" or " hey were best friends we can flirt". The way she looks at me has changed, and me at her, we now stare into each other eyes when we talk. she even tricked me into asking her to go to Prom next year. And when i try to bring up the idea that maybe we could try being more then friends she either acts as tho she's all for it or she doesn't want to talk about it at all... i believe she's very confused, and all i've gotten out of her about us moving forward is something along the lines of " i don't want to ruin what we have, i really love you being my best friend and I'm afraid that if we have a relationship something will go bad and we won't be friends anymore (like most of her old boyfriends)". But i mean ever since we first talked in 9th grade i knew that she'd impact my life, and I know and love everything about her, im like cursed. you know im movies the guy in love says "food has lost its taste, and i can't sleep" ? yeah thats me these past couple weeks, everything i do is so she'll want me even more, and i can't seem to pull off my PUA "moves" with her.... im in desperate need of help fellas, i need to seal the deal cus i know if we get together nothing will break us apart.


heres our most recent Conversation ( its not exact words but its similar and the same point), the story is after i picked her up from the coffee shop we work at, we had lunch at a Whataburger down the road.

Her: so what are you doin Valentines day?
Me: i got a swim meet
Her: ohh mann thats totally lame, why?
Me: idk my coach is an idiot
Her: well are you getting anyone anything?
Me: well, i was thinking about getting this one chick some flowers but i dont know what type to get. i mean Roses say "i love you" but i don't think she feels the same way about me as i do her, so im probably going to go with daisies cus they say " hey were friends". (when i said that it was obvious that she was the girl that would receive them, and she knew it cus of the way she smiled)
Her: so whose the girl?
Me: you don't know her ( bare with me im in high school alot of this is cheesy as shit)
Her: well, i always loved flowers delivered to me during class cus then all the girls are jealous.
Me: but i dont know what type to get her?!
Her: (smiling) well i think you should get her roses....

this Valentines Day im gettin a Bouquet of roses and Daisies with a card that says its from her Prom Date


i need help i really like this girl... sorry if this is the wrong place to put this, i figured since im trying to get in a relationship it should go here

I'm a Junior in HS as well. I've never been a fan of relationships in HS due to constantly meeting new girls and wanting to experience and learn without being tied down by a gf. However, I do understand that it's possible to meet a girl that you really like, and you want to try a relationship out. It's normal.

If you like her, and its obvious that she likes you, go in for the kill. Being friends prior to a relationship is probably even a BENEFIT for you. I mean, think about it. You guys already know that you get along well. You know that you have things in common. Relationships with someone that you've known for a while could turn out to be some of the best.

Escalate with her, and start treating her like she's your gf before you even ask her out. She'll notice. And when you finally propose to her to be in a LTR, it wouldn't seem like such a big jump. Because it's hard for a lot of people to grasp the whole "we were just friends, and now we're going out!" idea.

Hey my man here is right. Go in for the kill.

My advice: Tell her she is sexy. You dont tell friends they are sexy. You NEED to go to the next level with these type of words

Also change your looks a little. She needs to see you as a different guy, so she forgets about the image of "the friend". I hope you get it. Go for it man!




PS: Man, I read the flowers dialogue...she is obviously saying: "I WANT TO BE YOUR GF".