Hello, I am new. I have a question to all experts in this field.

In your experience, and to your knowledge, what factors have made your ex-girlfriends return to you (or try to return to you), especially if they dumped you?

Jealousy about you? Lack of excitement in their new lives?

A second, more specific question is, if you had a regular f**k-friend, and she "dumps" you for several reasons, e.g. because she settled in a long-term relationship, would you be able to seduce her back? If yes, how?

Before you ask the "how"? Ask "why"?

If a girl dumps you, get on with it. She dumped you because she found something(she thinks) is a better alternative.

Sitting there and thinking about winning her back is EXACTLY how you prevent yourself from winning her back and preventing yourself from finding better girls.

Go and find fresh vagina. . . yummy . . . have fun.

Then if this one calls you, tell her you're kinda busy but you're always available to meet her AS A FRIEND.

Man . . . have some pride, even if she wants you back or whatever, you just don't let some girl treat you like a little puppy telling you when she wants to play with you and when she wants to disown you. Nobody should ever get a second chance with you. If they make that mistake, too bad for them but they're done.

Also . . . for the future. I'm not sure how you took the news but judging by your writing, you probably didn't go, "Oh, really? Whew, that's all? . . . OK, let's just be good friends then."

Women love it when a guy goes berserk so they can feel as if they were important. They already rehearse these lines, "Oh . . .it's OK. . .we'll need some time . . . It hurts me too . . .We tried our best. . . " Violins . . . Opera . . . Melodrama . . ..Ha ha ha ha ha .

Yeah. . . . thanks for saving me time for the 3 other current girls and 5 others who are waiting in line.

Up to you but I'd be relieved . . . even if you get her back, the minute she finds another piece of meat, she's off your wagon. Go find better.

Dude, just move on!

Thanks, but I was asking about your experiences, since you are the pick up artists.

Did any ex-girlfriend ever try to contact you again? If yes, why do you think they did? What changes happened between the moment they dumped you and the moment they re-gained interest in you?

I always break up with a gril while keeping good relations with her. No hard feelings and such.
So we still talk once in a while, and when I want a girl back, I call her saying "wow you don't get how bored I am, you must save me!"
And we talk a little bit. As long as she is not in a serious relationship, you can almost always take her out "just for fun", during that time reminding some good old times and really "Game it around" or whatever.

You don't need to break a kino with an ex.. just touch her and hug alot.. it's really simple lol.

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I feel like a jerk when I comment to ppl with advices when I am 16 and only got in to seduction art, but hey.. I write what seems reasonable from my exp. Don't be mad. =]

You always get the occasional "what's up?" text and I go something like, "Heading to a party now . . ."

That's that.

What's changed? Nothing. They hopped off the Polar Express for a go on a tricycle ride. . . and they knew they were doing this as some sort of "leverage" to get what they want. Now they get more rides on the tricycle and that's that.

I always leave room for "experiments". This means I always leave room for friendship and future possibilities as I never trap anybody nor do I burn bridges. But when they voluntarily announce that they're hopping off the train and announce that they're torching the bridge, then I go OK. From that moment on, they're free to watch the show from the sidelines but my train no longer stops by the nut house.

By the way . . . it's not you . . .but the nature of your post and your insecurities make me feel a bit sick . . . It's like being forced to see a eunuch's crotch. Stop this wussy crap. Grab balls and gently massage them to remind yourself that you HAVE BALLS.

May I ask you how? How do you let the girl know that you haven't got any hard feelings? What do you do if they try to impose "no contact"?

Sorry, we have different values and curiosities about the world. If you don't want to help me, I'm not forcing you to.

P.S.: My train never stopped. What I'm trying to understand is whether one can apply all expert pick up techniques also on those who decided to hop off. What I feel is that if it comes to the point that they hop off, or if it is not possible to make them hop on again, perhaps these techniques are efficient only on "fresh vagina" as you call it.

To each their own fun.

Well I've actually never had a girl 'dump' me... it's always been me doing the breaking it off.

And yes pretty much all of my X's contact me... some fairly regularly some very rarely... I'll be cordial and make small talk with them, as they were at one point a small or large part of my life... but I generally dont take it farther then that.

Now I have before... and I have gotten X's to come back as FB's before on several occasions... its really pretty easy to do, just hang out with them and start where you left off physically, while simultaniously LJBFing them.

I'm the same as The Doctor iv never had a gurl break up wit me, but i always keep it gud wit dem, jus break up b4 u guys get 2 the point wer ur jus wit eachothr bcuz ur use 2 it but fight all the tym bcuz u bout cnt stand eachothr anymor!
i xplan dat 2 a gurl i jus start 2 date "once it starts not bin fun we end it"

benifit is wen u wnt u start txtn dem aftr mayb a few months, talk bout all da gud tyms n shit n she has no bad memory's of u's bin 2getr!
jus done dis ona air hostess HB9 i use 2 date, she rang me last nite at 2.46am......u b da judge!

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She Don't No If She Coming Or Going, After I'm Cuming I'm Going!

Only had girls come back for sex, because I can give them orgasms when others can't.

But never back for a Relationship.
They've usually found that I'm a better Lover than whoever they're with, and keep me as FB instead of BF... Which is fine with me


I've never gone back and seduced an ex.
Just like I don't go exploring the areas I already know.

Unexplored Vaj is so much more interesting

Keep moving forward, if they want you back, then it's they who've got to run after, not you who's got to stick around waiting.
They should realize that you're far higher value than what they can find elsewhere, it's not your job to show that to them.

You just don't get it do you? It's exactly that very insecure "I have no balls but instead a vagina between my legs" attitude that is FORCING the girl AWAY from hopping back on your train!

I can't type any more. I'm going to fucking puke now. . . Consider homosexuality . . . I can't even read your posts any further.

So basically you're saying that, in general, simply moving on with other women will make them curious about you and want you back?

What if it was an FB and not a GF?

well there was a girl I was with so hot that completely afc'ed(my game wasnt very solid also) me then dumped, I realized how foolish I was, I didnt go for any other girl cause I was still in love, but I wasnt going to dimminish myself even more, and if I had lost her because of my stupidity then I had to already start forgeting her even tho it wasnt easy

I didnt call, tried to see her, seek nor anything, she eventually called me back

as the boys say, if you want to have your girl you must be prepared to lose her

This is a cheap 19 year old ditzy chick trick. When a girl tries to make you jealous by hugging some guy at a party . . . can you or can you not recognize this?

You don't move on to other girls in order to make this one curious about you. You move on to other girls because you're a cool guy with a LIFE to live. Moving on to other girls is just one physical aspect of living your LIFE.

Sitting at home and thinking up a strategy of getting it back on with a FB is so weak, my fingers are hurting to merely type this up. If you were my little bro, I would have whacked you beside the head. An FB is an FB because all you do is FUCK. Are you telling me that she has a gold medal vagina? What is she a porn star? What's wrong with you man? Get the hell out of your house and start living your life! I would hardly be surprised if this wussy attitude of yours is what made her drop you in the first place.