I was out last night and came across and found myself in a few situations which happened to put a damper on my mood.

One at the bar getting the drinks in for my friends round, it was very busy and yeah it is all about survival when it's like that however, the guy in front of me was getting served and I was behind him waiting to squeeze into the bar and then this little dirty pushed in beside me, I playful said 'I hope you not planning in jumping in front of me' she just smirked, the guy in front turned his back to me and let her in, Grrrr.. I could still get in a little to the bar but she physically tried to body push me out the way to let her friends in aswell, which didn't really work...Told her along the lines of that she nothing speical, very rude and that I would still get served before her anyway. I finaly made my own space and got in, made sure the bar man I knew seen him, he came over and served me, she got served by sombody else but said i cheated, I got my drinks, laughed at her and said it deserves her right for her Ignorance in the first place.

Two, At the club, putting our jackets in, after a long patient 10min wait, two girls jumped in right in front of us near the very front, I was disgusted as they then let at least 6 of there friends in front of them. I spoke to the girl in fronts head as she wouldn't turn around, 'ignorant and very rude don't you think?' 'rubber ears, thought so' 'You really badly need a shave' 'You could at least say Thanks' etc etc...She finaly turned around, blah blah and ended up just telling her to forget it and hurry up.

What happend to Manners, made my very annoyed and tense.

What would you do in situations like these? when you come accross very rude and ignorant people, I wanted to just roll off things to make them feel such low value but didn't know what.

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This is actually a very good question, you dont want to come off as being Mr Right and everything has to go the way its meant to and make a big deal about it, but you also dont want to get walked over.
I have personally never encountered this but if i was in that situation i would probably make a remark to a friend or someone else in the line commenting on how rude they were being and say it loud enough that they heard but say it in a joking almost laughing at them type of way.
That would say to everyone that you noticed, you thought that type of behavior is out of order but your not gonna let something so little have an effect on your great night out. After all, if you saw that happen and a guy react in that way would you rather hang out with the rude 1 or the guy who has respect for other people but still has a great time?
I would however say something if some1 butted in with 5 friends infront of a long line, because this isnt just rude its taking the piss and everyone in the line behind feels the same. When you say something you say it for all the people behind aswell and that will show you in a good light to all who see, especiall those in the line behind.

Madals

You are the rudest person in these situations. Someone wanted a drink - get over it. Someone wanted their coat, get over it.

Instead of being snarky, rude, and coming off as a loser, why didn't you just smile, chat them up, and then mention you were ahead of them in the line? Everything you did was much worse than them, and you proved that you were in a bad mood (probably because your PUA skills were lacking).

Grow up.

I think that by establishing yourself as an ALPHA and not letting ANYBODY jump you, that you'd be establishing yourself as an alpha. Oh wait, I'm looping here, aren't I?

Fuck em. It shows that you have balls, you're not afraid to use them, no matter how big the dude is or how hot the girl is. They have to wait their turn and can go fuck themselves otherwise.

It's that simple. You let people jump in front of YOU, and you've just DLV'ed, unless you MAKE them make up for it, as in buying you a drink. (Good luck with that one. I've yet to figure that one out personally.)

Thats funny, I actually had a girl do the same thing to me the other week. I was with a couple friends waiting to hang our jackets up, and she just shoved her way in past us and then brought two friends in who were waiting on the sidelines for their moment. She was really rude about it, not smiling, and I thought "well ok, screw that bullshit!"

So I just laughed loudly, put my hands on her shoulders and said real loudly, "Oh I love this game! Its called Get In Line!" and pulled her back, stepping around her friends. Then I looked at my friends and told them "Hey you guys can play too, if you want! Its a fun game!" So they stepped around her as well. At this point she was a bit too taken aback to jocky for her stolen place and shot me a dirty look, and I just laughed and shrugged and said, "Just hope that the rest of the line doesn't decide to play you, too...You really suck at this game" and turned around to chat with the coat girl, who was really cute and was laughing about what I had done. I could hear people bitching at her behind me as I was ripping on "some people.."

Rest of the night was great, lots of cute girls in the Copenhagen Meat District.

When girls try to get past me in the bar, I usually get them into a conversation. Most girls are polite enough not to just jam there way in, and if you are polite back and tease them "Hey it costs a beer to stand this close to me!" you can usually get a good convo going. If they really are rude, I will usually just get served first anyways. All it takes is having the right kind of eyecontact with the bartenders before and after, most bartenders know whats up and will respond to you if you stand patient yet convincingly and give them the right look.

I love you Daggaz, let's make manbabies.








(j/k, but that was cool anyway. )

If you plan on not making any friends and coming across as a loser (but an alpha in your own mind), then this is the way to go.

However, if you are actually socially attuned in some way, shape, or form, then Daggaz has the right idea.

Fabulous Idea, next time I'll hold up a sign asking if anyone wants to jump in front of us.

I think your the one that should get off the high horse, Are you trying to tell me that pushing in at the near the front of the line and bringing in your large group of friends to join you isn't rude or ignorant, which I've to ignore and be Mr Nice Guy and let them in...

If it was only the one girl, it would have been a whole different situation, I would have picked her up, had a laugh and joke but after waiting on a large line for at least 10 minutes, it wad taking the piss if anything bringing in your large group of friends. I had ever right to say something. I didn't cause any noticeable scene but while having the personal word with one of the friends in front, see even agreed it was ignorant but couldn't give a flying monkeys.

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Doing the act in a rude manner itself made it even worse and as I' said it would probably be a whole different story if it was just the one girl or even if they were polite about doing it, either having a joke or even asking.

That was pretty funny mate and I think it most cases, what you done was class and probably the best thing to do.

I could have stepped out the line and stepped in front of them, I can't see them stopping me, as they just done it to me and regarding there intention, they have already got what they wanted - in the line! However, depending on the situation itself next time, I won't be taking bullshit.

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If you think you dare not, you don't.
If you think you'll lose, you've lost.
--It's all in the STATE OF MIND--