Sick of hearing "I have a BOYFRIEND." !!!!



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 2:47 am 
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ok, I hear all the time "I have a (fuckin') boyfriend." You know half the time they're lying!!! How do you respond to this??

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 3:12 am 
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best reply for that question that I've seen on this forum

HB: I have a boyfriend

PUA: really, I have a pet at home too

another I saw was "well tell him ti go fuck himself" but he said to only use that if she tells u she has a BF in a bitchy way


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yeah the last reply was good but make it funnier like "I have a hamster, i wont tell if you dont" smile and she should laugh


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 3:42 am 
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HB: I have a boyfriend

PUA: really, I have a pet at home too
Lol, that shit is golden! I cant believe I've never heard that one.


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"I have a hamster, i wont tell if you dont"
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:52 am 
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"I have a boyfriend"

"I've got a fridge."/"Good for you."/"Don't worry, i'm not interested"


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:30 am 
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Instead of focusing on fixing symptoms why not fix the problem. Chances are if she is saying this to you then you are being too obvious about your intentions, also if it is a shit test and you react you will fail. Simple response "Ok" then carry on with your conversation.

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Regardless of if she has a boyfriend or not, if she is in the club without a guy, then she is game (rare exceptions for married women).

A woman only tells a guy she has a boyfriend when she wants to get rid of him, period. You are probably coming on way too strong or she is not comfortable enough with you. Like jay said, don't look for a line to respond, look in yourself for a deep level change.

I never ever get the 'I have a boyfriend' objection any more. I also never get the 'I'm a lesbian/we're lesbians' rejection because I'm comfortable, congruent, confident, humorous, and likable enough that they want to keep me around. Work on being, not doing.

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though if it's really late in the game that she's saying it, it could just be some ASD.

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Regardless of if she has a boyfriend or not, if she is in the club without a guy, then she is game (rare exceptions for married women).

A woman only tells a guy she has a boyfriend when she wants to get rid of him, period. You are probably coming on way too strong or she is not comfortable enough with you. Like jay said, don't look for a line to respond, look in yourself for a deep level change.

I never ever get the 'I have a boyfriend' objection any more. I also never get the 'I'm a lesbian/we're lesbians' rejection because I'm comfortable, congruent, confident, humorous, and likable enough that they want to keep me around. Work on being, not doing.
The thing is, I get that pretty much as soon as I approach. I'm tall, thin and I know I'm not ugly, I've never dated below an 8 (even as a complete AFC) and fat girls and gay guys love me lol. It's just the whole "I have a boyfriend" line has gotten so played out I want a concrete way to shoot that down. I like the "I have a pet at home too" one and the "hamster" lol. Anyone else have any good ones?

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When I used to get it I would just say "ok" or "me too" then just chat about something different.
How do you usually approach?

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When I used to get it I would just say "ok" or "me too" then just chat about something different.
How do you usually approach?
Hey, I'm new in the area (which is a lie) where are the best spots to hit? I hit small sets usually, maybe 2 girls but they are always hb 10's. They tell me, but then when I start trying to invoke a convo. they break out the "I have a boyfriend" bullshit and I want to strangle them...lol

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