Yesterday i found out my one true weakness TEXTING. If you do not have texting you can lose a girl as quickly as you can get her. I was talking to a girl for 30 minutes for a whole week. But then her Ex's Best friend TEXTS her for one day kabam they're going to the mall. Also this is a question of opinion. Is asking out saying "hey lets go to XXXXXX" or is it saying hey be my girlfriend she thinks it is the last one

Um, This made little to no sense at all. Try and be a bit clearer next time, from what I understood you don't have text messaging so you missed out on going with her too the mall?

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The Wisconsin PUA

John, amigo, just 'cause she's going to the mall with another guy doesn't mean you've lost your chance. So he scored a date with her. You can score dates with her too. Sure, brushing up on your text message game will probably help, if you think that she likes to text. She's allowed to go out on dates with more than one guy, though, same as you're allowed to go out on dates with more than one girl.

In any case, try to consider all of the possibilities. Maybe it wasn't the texting that did it. Maybe his game was tighter. Maybe he has an advantage because he knew her before. Just play your game right and the next date will be yours.

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Some vices miss what is right because they are deficient, others because they are excessive, in feelings or in actions, while virtue finds and chooses the mean.
Aristotle, Ethica Nichomachea

a lot of puas use txt..

You should always have a texting plan on your phone. Texting is the new way to talk. And it's a ridiculously cool way to flirt as well. If you're not texting, you're missing out.

John, your problem was that you were talking to her all week without arranging something, not because some other dude texted her. I mean come on, 30 mins a DAY for a whole week... if it wasn't about getting together, what the fuck were you talking about?

LMAO, At least we know he has fluff game

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The Wisconsin PUA

Listen I am not worried about it i just don't have texting and yes i did try to set something up but she had work the day i wasn't busy so oh well she is his boyfriend but oh well i was upset but i am over it.However I am happy that i can actually talk on the phone because it will help when i talk to people in real life because most people i know don't even talk on the phone now

And is fluff that bad