In a club the other night with some friends, we managed to get into a student night even though we're a couple of years older than most of the people there. This became quite apparent by their maturity.

Case 1#
I had eye contact (ioi) from a hb8 a girl earlier in the night but I was dancing with friends. She comes back to our spot later on on her own, looking a bit lost. I approach and lead her to the dance floor, just opened with you look bored etc. She gave me a huge smile when I approached, presumably because I gave her social proof of not standing their on her own. Twirled her around a bit and she said she had lost her friends. I didn't really have anything to say to that and gave a garbage response shortly afterwards she left to look for them.

She definitely gave me a couple of ioi's during the interaction. What could I have said as a response to her losing her friends to build enough comfort for her to stick around while she waited for them to come find her! ? She definitely gave the impression she was not worried about having lost them and was very calm & relaxed.

Thanks.

I'll add on case #2 of the same night. Get opened by a set of girls asking me to take their photo, I take the photo then ask for a photo of me and the target HB7. Dance with her for a bit then exit. Towards the end of the night she dances right behind me rubbing her ass against mine. I reciprocate and touch her hand, attempt to spin her around. She doesn't and goes back to just dancing against my back. I try again but she seems unwilling to leave her set (about 5 other girls) so I stop paying her attention. Eventually the lights come on and the club closes. I thought of her behaviour as bit unusual and could be down to her being quite young and shy.

Mate in case 1, what was your garbage response?

Cause thats pretty simple, if you opened her with that line and she replies she lost her friends. Your next line should have automatically been well I'm Walt, what's your name?
Get the intro out of the way...

The crack a joke about her not having in friends, but its ok cause you'll be her friend. Take her for a dance or go for a chat somewhere. Run a few moves on her and at least number closer her, could do more if you run good game.


Case no. 2 forget about it... girls drunk on a dance floor are clueless as to what they are doing and what is going on. They do all sorts of shit for fun and attention, you tried to spin her around. If she doesn't follow brush her and then if she bumps your ass again. Stop her and say something like, what do you think this is a free for all... if you want to keep touching my ass your going to have pay for it!

That's a great reply thanks Chad99. Case 2 I think you've definitely hit the nail on the head, she only behaved like that because she was very drunk and didn't have the self confidence to back it up. Good line to get her to back off!

Case 1, I think I just said something cocky but not funny, like forget about them then continued to kino and dance with her. I generally don't exchange names at the start as I'll likely forget, or don't care at that stage (at least give that impression). Altho it is a good excuse for kino with touching / squeezing their hand.

Should I have said something like?: 'It looks like you're in need of a babysitter, The first 5 minutes I'll do for free then I'm off! Giving a false time constraint. or Knowing she was a student, 'Don't tell me you study geography because you're always getting lost.' / 'I'm used to helping out lost lambs, I used to be a tour guide.'

Basically I froze because I wasn't prepared for that situation. Going to try and cut down on how much I drink out so that I don't talk garbage at the end of the night.