Greetings,

I came on the board after picking up "the game" and wanted to see how i could improve this certain aspect of my life.

Ive graduated semi recently as an engineer and work in finances. Before that, ive attended a private school.

Now to be blunt, that is pretty bad upbringing for meeting girls. School ended up being a selection of the same people. There might have been a hot babe growing up eventually, but you just remember the girl that was in kindergarten. Uni software engineering was a poor experience. And the financial workplace is just men for most part. So school and working environment were a no go.

I thought if i improved on myself, things will happen naturally. So i took on more activities. Did Bjj competitively for a couple of year, salsa for a trimester, and hot yoga as long as bjj and still going on strong. And besides that, im working my ass off amassing wealth and looking on for higher education. And I do go out alot, but not so much recently. Obviously, that plan didnt work out either.

But fact is I just cant close. Or approach, incidentally. But the latter is not the issue, because i get approached often enough.

I just don't know what to do with a window opening of less than three minutes. Three minutes is usually from the time she opens up with a question to the time i need to be going somewhere. Or at night,from the time she grabs me to the time i exhaust my salsa repertoire. ( Most girls cant couple dance, so while they may be having fun, its a pain in the ass improvising so they look good). And when thats done, we just say its been fun and we part.

Three minutes window might not seem much, but i figure for the people here they could f-close it easy. Right?