so. new classes. new semsester.
now i'm sittting next to this hb that i've known for about 4 years. she really doesn't like me cuz she know that i'm a asshole. lol so what must i do to make her be more serious toward me and try to befriend her. and then spit some game. any help? and routines?

First of all, why does she think that your an asshole?

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"Sometimes nothing can be a real cool hand. "

You can't figure that one out yet?

Your lack of self-esteem and positive self beliefs are bothersome to me.

Focus on being, not doing. Your perspective on what game is will continue to undermine your goals of success and self actualization.

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There are no failures, only feedback.

well because i've she was in my class before and she know i play around a lot and just joke around and everything.
we did talk today, we were laughing but i feel that there is no sexual tension and i need to involve that.

grow a pair, it's always a good start












just enjoy yourself around her instead of worrying about all this thats going on in your head.

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.

Wow man, you are getting torn up here. But there is a reason for it. Your self-projection is rock bottom (hence your problems with the girl) and then you come in here asking for a magic bullet or something to save your day, and well, it just aint gonna happen. So people are ripping on you for it. Its like people who think they are instantly going to change their lives by sitting on the couch and watching an episode of Dr. Phil.

You could memorize game in and out, and you might get her listening, but its going to be completely incongruent with your presence and she will pick up on it, and in the end you would fail.

Basically your frame, your state of mind that is, is stuck way down at ZERO and you need to seriously boost that up a few many notches before you will ever start getting results from girls. Thats not something you can learn over night. Check out the AMOGging thread in Routines for more of what I am talking about. You need to seriously change your attitude about yourself, and today would be a great start.

For starters, you are not an asshole. Your behavior might be seriously beta, but that is your behavior, NOT you. You can change your behavior, you should start by learning what to do and how. Search the forum for tips on AMOGs, on tonality, on positive frames, on body language, especially go down the list under "Beliefs and Confidence Building." This is where you need to start.

Good luck, man.