I managed to kclose a girl I wanted for years. After 3 years without seeing her we decided to meet. Talked, I scalated, tried to kiss, she refused, walked her home. By her door I gave up to try to kiss again, she diceded to take me to the buss stop, in the bus stop we where embraced I scalated again, some kisses from both sides on the neck. When my buss came she kissed me. I wonder if she wont have some buyers remorse now cause she refused on the first momment and the kiss was not as long as I would like. Any ideas or pointers on this? I can give more info if needed.

congrats

GG

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that is what its all about im sure many have this dream

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You may not have 100% control over your looks but you have 100% control of your personality.

Not to shit on your man, but you just kissed her, you didn't have sex with her or end up creating a relationship, so I wouldn't say that you've "closed" her. You've made some good progress, but this is just a first step. Like I said, I'm not saying this to bring you down, it's just that you sound like you're freaking out and that you think it's a big deal, but if you're just cool about it and don't make a big thing out of it, it will actually help you succeed a lot better.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

nail on head.
Congrats, I understand the buzz, Ive had it before. Feel great once youve been granted something youve been denied for ages. Walking once youve got it, you feel like youre the shit.
Now go for a relationship. Act like the kiss is not a big deal to you, even though it obviously is. If you get too hyped up over it, I can almost garuntee youll do worse than what you would.

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To be sincere after all Iḿ not sure I want her I made it maybe more to prove myself I could. We are supposed to hang out together again. With my logistics I would not expect to fclose her on the first day out. But I got her to want to kiss me and see me again, and this is progress.

Don't be surprised if little miss one-itis turns out to be less than you have made her up to be.

most her value is that she's been unattainable.
So my guess is that you'll find this to be, as you suggested, more to prove to yourself that you can have this now.


It's psychology
Forbidden fruit is the sweetest, but then you begin to wonder; is this really all ?
Why did I make such a fuss about it ?

at least, that's my experience.
Once you get what has always been denied, you realize... it's not that big of a deal, really..... Think about alcohol, when you were at last old enough to drink, it lost almost all it's attraction. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBkzOKBI5iM

Point is she changed from since I met her in a way I disliked. But it is more or less what you said it is maybe about getting the unreachable.