Hey guys. So here's my story I guess. I had tried pua stuff before when I was in high school. Didn't really work out too well, and I blame myself for that. Luckily, I met a girl and we've been together for over a year now. Not so bad right?

Well, I'm a little older now and everyday I see all these beautiful, single women pass me by. And my girlfriend is cool and all, but I'm not looking for the serious relationship she wants right now.

Sounds simple enough probably... tell her what I want and end it right? Well, problem is, I don't want to leave her just to end up in the same position I was in high school, not to mention she was...err...is my first long-term relationship. I was always able to make women laugh and stuff, it's just that by the time I had become confident enough to be comfortable around them, they'd lost interest. I'm also terrible at approaches, I can never work up the nerve to walk up and say something to a random woman, let alone know what to say. Any openings I'd ever seen or heard always seemed corny, pua or not.


Hopefully you guys can help me out. I know I'm just gonna have to suck it up and give my girl the bad news. But, I'm not sure where to go from there. Like I said, I've gone through pua stuff before, so I know the terms (unless they've changed), have some literature, and after awhile I should start to remember some stuff. If there's any real good post on confidence, please tell me since that seems to be my lowest point.

Oh, and if there's anyone around Albany, NY willing to bring me into the field to help me out, I'll drive haha. I'm 18 though so bars are out.