Amb11: haha alright good. you're definitely getting lunch with me this week... it's not a date though so don't get all excited, you're not really my type =)

HB: a) ouch
b) sounds like a plan

I wouldn't want to be incestuous, now would I? lol


So things are back in business. Kind of annoyed she's still holding on to this running joke of the little sister, but I guess that is my fault after all. Will let you know how it goes.

Actually, I thought about this one and the fact that she said "we wouldn't want to make this incestuous" means she's talking about a relationship/hook up.

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You are very right, the fact she thought about implying something sexual may happen is a very good sign.



I like your response, however, it's a response used for a different situation.

I am not saying your response won't get a good reaction, I am just saying it won't garauntee you a good response.

Your response can backfire on you, causing her to give the argument of :
Her: What are you talking about? All I implied was. No, I would never think about doing anything like that with you because we are brother and sister.

When people imply things and ask questions as she did. It's best to get her to admit you 2 should ramp things up. Here's what you do:
Answer her question with a question, Offer a solution and finally, Show the first initial signs of fliration. To FINALLY cross the friends zone.

One more note*
When it comes to logistical questions . .. NEVER ask her where you two should go. Always tell her where you are going, if she doesn't like it she will say something.
You do all this by:



Step1. answering her question with a question.
Step2. Offer a solution
Step3. Time to finally escalate, be the one to give her a flirty comment. Not a big one though, a minor one.
Step4. Give her the time and place YOU are comfortable with.




Example:

Her: I wouldn't want to be incestuous, now would I? lol

Me: Step1. (answer her question with a question )I dont know, would you?
Step2. (solution) However, techniquely, we aren't really brother and sister
Step3. (finally Fllirt) which is a relief because I enjoy your smile
Step4:(time and place YOU are comfortable with) I am free Tuesday around 1 at the dining hall "[/

So in the end I would respond something along the lines of:
I dont know, would you? However, techniquely, we aren't really brother and sister . ..which is a relief because I enjoy your smile Iam free Tuesday around 1 at the dining hall?"

Good luck Amp,
TimmyD out

I said the whole "I don't know do you?" thing and finally said. I'm free on Tuesday at 1. She responded, I have class from 12-2:30, my freest days are are Weds. and Fri. I then said, "Same time friday." to which she responded "I can't, I'm having lunch with the dean of students that day."

Hi Amp

I would say you still have a chance, it may not be big, but you still have a chance.

I would suggest:
step 1. giving a reason to why you were being inconsiderate
step2. apoligize
step3. make a joke to lighten up the awkard moment of the message.

For example:
Step1.(apologize) Hey *(insert name)* I want to apologize if I came off as a jerk the last message

Step2.(reason) Someone cut in front of me in line at the post office

Step3. (make a joke) I took it out by calling several people mean names such as " weird, or turtleface "

Step4: (closing) I am having to spend the whole day apologizing to all my victims (you being one)

But be safe and I hope all is well with you


So in the end, your message should look something like this:

Hey *(insert name)* I want to apologize if I came off as a jerk the last message. Someone in cut in front of me in line at the post office, I took it out by calling several people mean names such as " weird, or turtleface."
I am having to spend the whole day apologizing to all my victims (you being one)

But be safe and I hope all is well with you




This is what I like to call " The Final Stand "
It's a final message ( on text or done in person ) I send to a girl after seriously fucking up, and realize there's still a chance . . . it's a small chance. But, still a chance.


It's basically " one last message." If she comes back, she'll come back. If not, than move on.



So send her your "Final Stand " and Good luck.