Well here is my story in my early teen years I was really closed off and had little to no social interaction with females as a result of this I had developed a weird fear of them (I guess fear of the unknown). On march break of 07 though I went on a vacation to Cuba what changed my life I was to stupid to realize it at the time but there were several girls who displayed interest in me but being the dumb ass that I was I never really noticed. But the main thing what set me off was this there was basically an HB10 she even won the hotel beauty contest thing and she was my age.
The hotel had a little disco club and everyone went there at night that girl came up to me and started grinding I was a dumbass and did not no how to react she could clearly see I was nervous and so she asked me are you nervous? I did not know what to say so I said "a little bit' at the time my strategy was trying to pity girls to like me lol but after I said that she just gave me this weird look and walked away this absolutely shattered me to rub salt on the wound I saw her grinding with some guy a few minutes later and watched them get into a nice make out session and I sat there thinking that could have been me what does he have what I don’t?
That’s where I starting getting into the game when I got home I started googleing stuff like how to approach girls and eventually I found out about PUA and eventually this site. It’s kind of funny though that moment absolutely shattered me I even had dreams about it and always thought about what I should have done now that I really think back on it was for the greater good if the moment shattered then I had to pick up the pieces and rebuild my self. That was almost 3 years ago since then I have come along way.

Excellent post, if slightly tricky to read with all the font changes.

PUA is about becoming everything you've ever wanted, without compromise. - I particularly liked this line.

Tips hat...

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I don't think it was one girl for me. Just was not happy being a push over.

True that

My ex-wife of 6 years. After she cheated, I realized I needed a better understanding of well.. everything, and subsequently stumbled across the PUA community.

In my case, it was the bitter past rather than specific girls.

In my life I was never success with girls. Overall I lacked social skills and had a little friends, due to many times my family relocated, from small towns to bigger towns and to big cities. I was the bully target of the city’s kids. The uncool-glasses one my face made me a perfect example for nerds. And as Style wrote in The Game, when I looked at my body on the mirrow I doubted any girls will want to walk beside it. (and Style’s body is not that bad. I was much worse). This mind set prevented me from meeting, dating or even talking with girls. I have never hold a girl’s hand before, let alone kissing and &$%#&%.

But when I got to the university in a foreign country ( I kept changing locations haha), I found out that I am on the intelligent side, and with my new passion with study my scores was on the top. I started to get attention. People come to me for advices on study. People from the same country ask me to interpret for them, because I got language ability. With the superior in specific skills I started leading another aspects, and became the alpha in some groups.

Beside I started to work out and now got a decent body, and with the right hair cut and fashion releasing my full potential, I got the looks of a model in fashion magazines.

To the people unknown my past, I seem to be a perfect male. They never recongnize me when I show my photos 2 years ago. Girls never believe when I tell them I don’t have a girlfriend.

But inside of me is a AFC whose score is 0.

I often receive IOIs from girls everywhere, but AA prevented me from doing anything. Some even approached me but I unconciously acted boring, frustrating and scared them away.

So 3 months ago I met this HB8 at part-time work. I asked her no. and flood her with (boring) txts. Maybe my looks kept her interest to reply, but it couldn’t save me at the first date. It was a horrible and akward date. I didn’t know what to do and even asked her to take the lead. She flaked after that and never answer my flooding txts.

2 months ago I met another HB8 at a party at another university. She asked my no., followed me around, even initated kino first. But I liked her HB9 friend more, so I ignored her and took HB9’s no. After that I asked HB9 out for a tea but she refused with the reason she is busy taking exams. Later I knew HB9 has a boyfriend, so I gave up on her and hit the HB8. HB8, maybe heared from HB9, rejected me hard with stupid reasons like: “oh I can’t see you now I have to go sleep now” ( I was near her place and it was 3pm) or “you don’t have to send the photos anymore” (the photos we took together at the party).

Desperating because of those rejections, I googled for dating technics and found David DeAngelo. Then I found the community and this site.

Now I’m learning PUA because I think it will change my life, to a better one. Especially the part that teach you how to become an alpha. But I’m also well awared that I may fall into the “revenge” mode. I do want to revenge, but I know it’s not a good thing to do.

I know I'm no alone. A lot of PUAs out there learn PUA, the "dark power" in order to revenge for theirs bitter past. We're like the bad characters in mangas. Those characters all have seem-right-reasons to excuse for their bad actions.

But let's forget the bitter past. We live in the now, and will live in the future.

Let’s all become the white-hat PUA! (not hacker haha).

wow reverse, way to leave us hanging.
Did you get her or not?

here is my story

so i had skipped from year 5 to year 7 when i was small, this lead me to be smaller than almost everyone around me. No matter physically, mentally, intellectually im the guy that is leave behind. this lead to a total low confidence in my whole life.

until the age of 15 i start to become sportive because deep in my mind i think it will lead me to girls because other guys who is good at sport got that too. but then i realize it is still not working out. so i tried hell lots of other stuff like stage performance and i got good at many thing. its still not working so at one point i was thinking that i got some kind of curse in me that i will never have woman in my life. and during my day being a introvert and playing computer i first get in touch with the community in a flash game advertising "the game".

so i finally met this girl at 16 and she was a HB8 in my heart that time and we started talking and she is interested in me but it went all wrong (not until now i realize its because me being to desperate). and she got a lesbian "boyfriend". i was so down that particular night and i got so pissed and stuff i suddenly decide to flirt the hell off the world.

so i went to peoples internet blog and start adding girls in my list and i start to have some success in my internet game and day 2 game. after almost half a year of gaming on internet with a reasonable (but not much) success. i settle with my current gf.

days went by and i realize about the dark side of her personality and i wish i had a choice, and of a random search in internet i found out and get to know more about the community. this had lead me to further study about psychology as well as NLP. and up til now im still studying hard to become a great PUA. and i should live happily ever after...lol

p.s. to me PU is about getting choice in your life. as well as self improvements.

Im just starting to look at the stuff on PUAs after reading "the game" as recommended by my brother.

I read half of the book in a sitting, and it dont think it is not so much as bettering yourself, because i find the characters to be complete douches. The characters demonstrated principles on human persuasion. And i think that is the key. In the book, Niel Strauss referenced Cialdini, and for reason because the whole game can be summed by Cialdini's research on human persuasion.

Now for bettering oneself. I am an AFC, i guess. But overall, everything is good for me. I end on top of mostly everything i touch. Just girls seem to be something i cant get around, hence my interest in the subject.
So girls are not a side effect to anything. They are a specific result from a specific action. Because if it were just a side effect of being a remotely well rounded person, i would not be here.

mad propps reverse, I rarely post on this site anymore... but this story was worth the read... good shit

also, surprised you mentioned methuselah... I read each of his his posts when I first joined in 2007, he was the foundational inspiration (after of course ...the girl) in my transition into a new-aged, refined, successful, MAN.


Since then, he left this site due to difference of opinion with the administration and started his own website with Daniel Becerra + others (www.pualifestyle.com) Currently though he is serving time in prison, but still manages to connect with the members of the forum via letters/blog articles..

Here is his latest Letter:
http://pualifestyle.com/forum/showthrea ... ght=letter


Cheers mate, good read again!!