I would like to say thanks to the people on this forum for their great support and patience. I know Rye Lee and I spent a couple of hours talking, Zip talking to me about Frames. Chief for giving it to me roughly but it was meant for all good. Aces of Spades for urging me along. Bonita for helping me sort out my thoughts and amongst others.
I've finally learned the true meaning of PUA. PUA is just about understanding women and being able to communicate to women effectively than those that aren't well as good.
If a man knows what a woman wants then he is ten times more attractive than any other guys.
Also, figuring out that women doesn't really express their opinions or wants directly - more indirectly. It's frustrating because us men are always trying to figure things out logically where the women is more emotionally verbal. Listening skills is a great asset for a man to have when it comes to a relationship.
This being said - so many relationships fail because some men can't listen what the girl is telling them.
The reason why I'm writing this is because I feel I've gained something out of this forum, books and experiences. I feel that I can lay aside my old thoughts and look into things more positive now. Why? Am I on crack? Have i been sniffing crazy glue - well some of that. But no, actually - down to it...those are just my AFC thoughts, or old negative thoughts.
I've been texting this girl - we would send sexy pictures to each other, she call and we laugh then I hang up.
Deep down somewhere I had a feeling I was being played. I wasn't sure what to feel but I felt really pissed off and aggravated about it. Thousands of thoughts raced through my head of just texting her, "Dude, if you don't like me then fuck off and stop wasting my time."
But did I?
Nope! Somehow I was able to recongize what she was trying to tell me. She was into me because periodically she would mention she had a interesting conversation on the phone. Are you guys sensing Jealousy Plots? Yup, Yup after settling down I finally figured it out.
I was being shit tested a bunch of numerous times --- why? Well, one she wanted to know if I was serious of being with her. So many bf she have in the past treated her like shit, plus she has a child now. So, she wants to make sure I'm gonna be with her and not fuck around by her back. Her ex bf did that to her.
Also, women like it when you take charge - but this thread is more about reading in-between the lines of what women really want. I read it somewhere but never applied it. So here's a short text messages.
I was feeling pissed like I said before because I thought she was playing me. I thought she wasn't interested in me.
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I know u were excited on sunday but a friend invited me to go out to a party with her - I haven't decided wat to do yet. I wanna be with u instead but ur confused who u want. I'm don't have to let u be with me - I choose u because u never judged me and ur understanding. Most girls aren't - so you've proved urself for me to want u.
[quote = "Char"]
If u want to go out we can hang out sum time this week or next week.
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[quote = "Stealth"]
I really don't wanna to because this gurl that invited me just wants to fuck and i'm not into her like that. I only fuck someone I like and wanna be with. Plus I think ur more beautiful inside and out than this chick. But if u wanna hang out sumtime later - i could go do other stuff on sunday with some of my guy friends.
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its up to u and u do need to get out.
At first when I read this I was like, 'Okay what the fuck - she isn't that interested in me. Which got me more pissed. I was gonna right back.
"Yeah, your right - I should hang with some of my friends at the club and dance with some girls."
Then a little voice popped in my head - I don't know if it was Gambler telepathically telling me something or not. LMAO! Ha ha - it's a joke if nobody caught that.
"Dude, read what she's trying to tell you. Don't be so naive and read it."
So I read it and than WHAM - right on the forehead. She wanted to be with me so she was trying to see what I wanted. So I wrote back:
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No, i want you over.
Meanwhile I was cooking some lunch and I was like, 'If this doesn't go well then it's just a learning experience."
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Ok
I'm starting to understand when a woman is intentionally trying to blow me off and when they're not and want to be with me.
So thanks guys for all the help and support. Round of hugs!
CHAT
