You guys got any tips for a first date?

Sometimes it just feels awkward, silences.

I have one in 2 days, meeting for a drink in a bar.

Get some barbecue and get busy.

I would get some kino going early on... If you k-closed her before (when you first met) do it early in the date and that way you can relax a bit. Share embarassing stories and try and build huge rapport with her. Being in a bar theres a heap of shit you can do with her like play pool, pick a song on the jukebox, have a bet/gamble, grab a bite to eat from the bistro, have a dance, introduce her to a friend, make jokes about that drunk bum wateva...
And just relax, dont over think it.
She's goin on a date with you so she's obviously into you that much.

definitely play pool, it generates harmless discussion and u get to scope each other's bod out. Just sitting there chatting over a drink, initially, can generate awkwardness - like an interview.

An activity takes the focus off each other, helps you relax and be yourself.

Some great advice here, props.

With Kino, I was thinking it might be a bit to blod to smack the lips on her as soon as I see her.

Pool - great idea!

Maybe you should just invite her to places and activities that YOU like. You are inviting her into your reality after all.

Beyond that, use time distortion.

Ive heard of time restriction. but never time distortion?

Its based on the idea that if you move a person around to multiple locations in a short time span, it creates the mental illusion that you've known each other longer than you really have, which makes closing easier.

If she thinks of you and is able to remember being with you in all these different settings and environments, then she is going to feel like you two have known each other longer than it has actually been.

Sooooo don't stay in one place all night. Bounce around to multiple places: eat dinner, see a movie, walk around, play pool, hang out somewhere, meet new people, watch a show, rent a movie, go to a party, etc. Do not hang out in one bar the whole night.

There is no set minimum amount, but I personally aim for at least 3 different settings per night.

My tip for first dates is to usually meet for a short period like about 45 minutes. Bring the energy, wear a smile, be relaxed, confident, interesting. Make her laugh, use kino (very important).

Also, something I strive to do is end the date when it's on a high, I know it sounds strange and a bit crazy to do so, but when you're at the high of the date, end it there as it'll leave her wanting more. Of course it needs to be executed right or it may look like you wanted to just bail out of the date as quick as possible.

Why I do this is becasue I've looked at how people who are having a great time never want it to end, but when their fun time is ended by another power, they can't wait to do it again. Think of your childhood when you were out playing with friends and your mum called you in for dinner, but you wanted to continue playing with your friends. As soon as you got in to eat your dinner you couldn't wait to get back out and play again.

Usually when I do this, I get her calling or texting me on the way home, saying how she had a great time and wants to meet up again real soon. Works like a charm. You can even send her a text on the way home too to build the attraction even more.

How would you leave, dude? Like what would you say to finish it on a high then bail.

Call her up and tell her what to wear, something different, "wear comfortable shoes"
Don't tell her anything more than that.

and then you get an old boom-blaster and bring her to the park, if the weather allows. maybe bring a bottle of wine and something easy to eat, and just chill out with her, dance with her if you can, and just get to know her.


It's even better if the thing you tell her to bring is totally unrelated.
Like "Bring galoshes".
'cause that'll make her go "wtf?...What would I need that for."

And if she brings it, then play around with her a bit. You can pretend you never said anything about galoshes.

Take her mountain-climbing, or something different, something she'll remember.
Like sky-diving.

Last time I took a girl out. We walked aimlessly around town and ended up sitting on a pier in the harbor, eating ice-cream... watching the sun-down, eventually.... and that was it. (K-close and it did spark something: F-close that weekend.)
Nothing fancy, just a $2 ice-cream.
Or ice-skating. that can be fun

And I'll just end this with a line from Sean Stephenson; "Take her out of her element" ... if she's a rich-girl, take her to a monster-truck rally. or if she's a bohemian take her to a fancy restaurant. (The important thing is that you have fun, right ?... just picture an upscale HB's reaction to being brought to a Wrestling Match.)

Be Creative, (or just go for the regular dinner and a movie, a kiss as you drop her off at home, and the "maybe you'll get lucky")

Ah I get it. Nice info guys.

Any tips for playing pool? I guess I should let her win, get some kino in - any ideas?

What I do is to set a false time constraint at the beginning of the date or even prior to meeting like I've got to be somewhere at 7.30pm if we're meeting at 6pm (I haven't got to be anywhere really, but you're making yourself look busy). If you haven't set a false time constraint then I'd take my mobile out of my pocket and pretend to be checking a message I'd then say that I've got to go help out a friend or something. Remember it's not lieing, it's flirting.

Keep the energy level high as you leave, a quick kiss goodbye, an embrace/hug and be on your way. If it's pulled off right, you're golden, you're going to give her the gift of missing you the minute you leave her sight if you've had a great time together and left the interaction at the highest point.

my favourite one for a quick first date is to tell them that i have to pick a friend up from the airport at 10pm so should come and meet me at 8pm for a drink but she no's il have to go around 9.30 . its a good ftc and works well with girls that were really drunk when u gamed them or when you feel you did not build up much comfort . shes more likely to come if you game her with good txt game and she nos you are only meeting for a short time . and of course when u leave at 9.30 you got plenty of time to sarge that eve . win , win

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