met her through a friend once and shes the real asian kind(not white washed at all).with that being said im not hoping to hook up with her for casual sex.etc instead im trying to set up a date with her and get to know her first.
i called her few days after we met but she didnt answer(coz she didnt know it was my number i got it from the friend we met through)so i tried txting and she txt back so we been doing this back and forth for about 10 days now .i do try to avoid replying pointless txt with the "ima busy guy"attitude and try to make it short and playful.i have called her once to set up a date but shes busy that night.
now is the real question.does all this playful kinda cocky hard to get attitude work for asian girls?maybe they do like to get comfortable and know more about the guy b4 they go on a date with someone who they just met once?

Treat her like any other girl.

Get her out on a date ASAP!

Call her and be like:

YOU: Hey, whatsup... Yada yada yada... Hey, we should do something this week. What day are you free?

Just assume she wants to meet up, and find a time that works. No need to worry about appearing too busy or whatever, you just need to get some face time with this girl before whatever sexual energy there was dissipates.

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The best pussy I've ever had was from an asian chick. Depending on how Americanized she is you do have to take culture into account. In my experience most asian women are attracted to a dominant male. Meaning that you need to go for it. I have found that the best way to get the date with these types is to present an opportunity for them to tag along. Ex "I'm going to check out the new exhibit at the museum this weekend, do you want to come?

I dated a Thai girl for two years. Asian dating cultures tend to be more conservative than in America. Having some degree of understanding this will help you to anticipate and avoid potential snags.

Though still important, the importance of male provider qualities in terms of dating has diminished in the United States over the past few decades, largely through a combination of women entering the workforce during WWII, and later through the equality movement. Understand that no Asian country has gone through these kind of events, and as a result, most Asian girls you date will take your financial status into greater account than a typical American girl would. This doesn't mean that they are gold diggers, or that you have to throw money at them, they just want the comfort of knowing that you are secure.

The most important things are to be fun and to lead. The next most important thing is to be a gentleman. Seriously. A lot of non-Americanized Asian girls don't get the bad boy thing; they will often mistake it as selfishness. Play it by ear of course.

One of the great things about dating foreigners is that you never run out of things to talk about, because you have so many differences. This is a good thing! I happened to know a lot about Thailand, and it really helped to DHV myself (I was able to set up jokes involving Thai cuss words and stuff). She will want to learn a lot about you too.

Social proof carries more weight than usual. Keep in mind that she is in a foreign country, and dating a guy from a very different culture. I happened to be socially proofed by lots of Thai people, which helped her to be more comfortable in going out with me, and made for a very fun and relaxed date.

Chances are, if she is going out with you, she has been advised by her friends that American dating culture is less conservative, so there's a possibility that you two will meet somewhere in the middle. In Thailand, people tend to date for several weeks before even kiss closing. I kiss closed with my Thai gf on the second night, though it was several weeks before we had sex.

I hope this was helpful to you. Good luck!

I have never been able to get an Asian girl to even look at me.
None of my friends have been able to go on a date with an asian girl.
I've never meet anyone who wasn't Asian who has gone on a date with an Asian girl.
I can using only the fingers on one of my hands the times I have seen an Asian girl w/ a bf who wasn't Asian.

Maybe it's because I'm Hispanic.

All I know is that Asian girls are the stuck up girls of any other race.

What a retarded comment that was. You must not get out much.

Being Asian myself and having tasted the rainbow (white, black, latino, asian girls...although my experience with black girls are more limited), I definitely understand Asian girls very well.

With Asian girls that are not so much Westernized, you must be building a lot of comfort. Too many DHV stories and you will make yourself unattainable. Too little DHV and you will feel like the creepy foreign guy.

There are definitely a lot more nuances to this so please describe more about the girl you are trying to hook up with, and I can definitely help you out with my knowledge to the best I can, since I understand Asian girls too well and have white friends dating Asian girls.

Last but not least, the term "Asian" is such a stupid term because a Chinese girl is very different from say, a Filippino one.

I've had my fair share of experience with Asian chicks, well since I'm living out in Asia there's a fair few around

IAm-me is right about not generalising about Asians, filipinos, thais, chinese, malaysian, indoensians, they're all different in their own unique way.

I won't get into specifics, but I've had great times with all of them. My observations are that they can be very much like western girls at times, some have a bitch shield, some can be fool mates, some blur, some flake. It's the same field just in a different stadium over here, actually there's more for players to play with over here, so it's actually easier in many ways.

If you're pursuing a girl to be a gf, then you may need to build more comfort than usual and cross over cultural and langauge barriers on the way which can make it slighlty more challenging for the novice, but once you become accustomed and just be the alpha man that you are, they'll be falling at your feet.

Asian girls over here do tend to focus a lot on wealth and status like most girls, but looks aren't as important to them as western girls I'd say.