your fingers must have ached pretty bad after all that typing, its amazing you spent all that time doing those questions, lots of repect to see dedication .

ok, im just gonna paste my email here:

Title: lots of questions

Hi adam! ive enjoyed watching your videos and they have helped me greatly, im glad to see a "pick up artist" so down to earth and real.

well, heres my situation i live in a very small village in cornwall, im only 15 but im eager to get into pickup and start learning but i cant seem to figure out how to begin. i have read ALOT of matierial and carefully thought about all concepts of pickup. Heres where im having trouble i live near none of my friends (the closest is 20 miles away) i have little or no transport (possibly one or two busses a week) and the closest city to me is plymouth (an hours drive). ive been constantly pushing to use pickup at my school but when you go to a very small school and you have a bad reputation (fighting, going for low value girls and failing etc.) its hard to get anyone to even take you seriously, it also does not help bieng in a unpopular clique, i also get bullied a little although i have learnt how to verbally defend myself effectively, which im quite proud of.

i have unfortunatly gave up on secondry school now with only 4 months or so left, so im hoping to make a fresh start at college and get going with pick up. although if you do have any advice for secondry school i would be glad to hear it. my first question is what can i do to prepare myself for college and to make friends with the right people? or any genral college tips would be apprieciated.

im not sure why but ive always dreamed of living in london however ive been asking myself if i could affored it? and how bad the violence and things that i hear about are down there? would you recomend living in london as opposed to anywhere else?(if i do get rich ill be moving to california) i have been pretty sheltered as you can imagine living in cornwall so i really have no idea, ive spoke to connections people and stuff at my school but they are utterly useless

is it worth practising game online and how would be best to go about this?

Your youngest fan,
Olie

p.s. are you running bootcamps or anything in the uk, and how much would these cost?(i might see you in 2011)


i also recently found out my friend is going to manchester and i can come along but im only 15 and my parents are REALLY protective and dont trust me atall. any ideas how to perswade them to let me go? my friend said hes parents would lie and say they were coming along with us but is this a good idea? i really want to start getting used to the city again before i move there.

sorry for not keeping it short, tbh these arnet that pick up related but i hope you can still help anyway not many other people to talk to about it.

cheers

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Dear Adam,

I would like to thank you for being so generous with your time to this thread, it is always refreshing to see people that genuinely care.

Do you have any good advice on being fashionable? Maybe a good suggestion for a read, since style is really a personal thing that would be hard to describe online.

On a quick side note, I've always thought it would be kinda cool as a geek to be in a LTR with a hot geeky girl to do geeky things with. I know you've said that you used to be big time into DnD and such. I'm just wondering if you still have any hobbies like this, or have you moved on entirely since you've gotten into game? I know its kind of an odd question, but it is a bit intriguing to me.

Hey Adam, happy new year.

I was just wondering how many approaches you did a week in the first six months of doing this stuff?

One other question. You talk about how you studied why routines worked. Where did you get this information from? were there certain books that really helped you?

By the way that Mp3 by you and Gambler was fantastic.

Hey Adam! David G here. Sent you this message on facebook and you told me to bring it to you here.

How do you go about becoming the life of the party? House parties specifically. Im still in high school and don't go to many parties so I'm inexperienced, other than chatting up everyone there and talking up the host, what do you suggest?

Also how do you go about being a more genuinely fun or cool guy? I know this is a deep-seeded question but if there's anything you could suggest it would be great.

Lastly, in high school, I'm friends with a lot of people but don't really fit into one set social group that I hang out with a lot. This doesn't bother me TOO much but a lot of times I don't have any certain groups I have out with often and it gets annoying at times.

Thanks!

Thanks ever so much for that Adam, I understand your very much in demand on here so apreciate the time out you took to answer.

a few more questions I have re social proof though. I, like you am from london and often use the west end and central london as my nights out, so digress, on anon, loop, strawberry moons etc. One thing which you have to be aware of being a fellow london boy is how cold and up there own arses some london girls can be. So going back to you previous points above...there must be times when you still get a cold shoulder even asking for such a small favour like "What time the place closes etc"
How would you deal with this as esentially its lowering your value if you are seen getting this happen to you on numerous occasions?

And I assume once you have bounced around the club and built up these little interactions, its a case of looking for IOI's from the girls you have spoken to and then going in and following the (Comfort,rapport break, attraction,qualify, escalate) steps hard and fast

Once again, thanks mate for taking the time out, you really are a credit to the community and congrats on the PUA poll results

Mikey

Hey Adam,

I stumbled across this video of you running "dance floor game" on YouTube:

http://se.youtube.com/watch?v=Sy8u1lsLBcE

Damn impressive stuff. Just wondering if you can always pull that kind of shit or did you get particularly lucky that time?

I'd always though only ridulously pretty boys could pull off those kinds of moves (no offence ). Anyway any dancefloor tips you could pass on to let me know what the hell you did here would be much appreciated!

Heya Adam, it's still me...

Thanks for all of your advices and I've to confess, you've been a HUGE help!! Because of your powerful formula, I'm starting to get a LOT more friends (most of them are women ). And 2 days before I met this girl, I encountered your material, which had blown my mind off!! I can't thank you enough!!

But I have to tell you, looks like my "pursue" is over. Last night, I called her. By her voice, seems like she's in bad mood. I chatted a bit wit her, she laughed at my jokes, told her I didn't win a speech contest with her advices, so she have to treat me (we joked about it earlier) , and asked about her speech. But she asked me "You're calling me just for this??". Then I told her (with playful tone) "Hey you're acting really strange.." Then she asked me "What?". "Just different" I told her. Then she said "Look, if it's not important, don't call me."

Then I told her "Kay, enjoy your night". She said "Okay". Nah, Adam I'm thinking about leaving this girl, but what I still want to ask you so much is: Do I have to text her again to say I'm sorry that I called her when she's not in the mood??" That's a big DLV I think?? And is it still possible to get her interest and make her crazy about me?? (I haven't used your powerful "sexual escalation" to it's max potential, I'm sure if I use it, it will destroy her bitch shield)

Thanks buddy!!

PS (Sorry for so much talk):D

Dear Adam

Hello first of all, got a quick question.
I'm studying in a small college, which means you can see every person 2-3 times per day.
That's why i can not approach properly to those girls thinking chance of failure. Haven't tried my chance yet, waiting for an advice from you.

Should i go directly and open them ?
Or wait for the right moment ?

Thanks.

Hey AFC Adam,

after not hooking up with a girl right away that I approached at a party of a friend we have in common, I had a date with her one week later. I picked her up at her house and we went out eating, together with two friends of mine. We had some nice conversation, I was humerous and relaxed but I didnt really do good game. I think im not in the friends zone, but might be close to it.

1) Should I wait for her to do smtn, like call me or speack to me on IM or should i get active; like I did to arrange date one?

2) Where should I take her for the second date.

3) How can I close the deal then, avoiding the friends zone?

Thanks,

Jack

hey adam
Would love to do a bootcamp with you.

Where? When? How much?

Cheers jim

Thank you bro thank you. hopefully one day we'll get to hang out as frnds man. cheers

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hey adam

im real new to all of this and find all of this stuff interesting as!

so many good looking girls come in to my work and i was just wondering
what would be some good advice that could break the ice and maybe get some numbers while im at work! lol

would be a huge help!

hi adam,i have been watching your post for a while and its great, and here its my first question here:
i would really want to know if im using C&F as my style, when exactly should i end all the cockiness and start adding rapport in?
thanks

Thank you, Adam, for answering my questions and your advice could open my eyes again. There is another question I want to ask you b/c I would consider you as the master in analyse and break down everything about social interaction.
Most of the time, I'm overthinking and I can't be in the moment. I always think in my head how I could give the person I talk to much value and to which value they respond to. It makes me most of the times nervous if they don't respond and I can't be in the moment to have a normal conversation flowing. Another time, when a group of girls speak with each other and I have no clue what they are talking about, I also tend to overthinking about what to say and how to get into the conversation if they don't start to include me. I always try to find a good situtional story but by forcing me to do that, it is hard to find one. I tried with asking situtional question about a similar or sometimes the same topic but they just answer the questions and it is hard to get into the conversation again. I can hold sets at first very good, when I meet them but if I get to know them, the excitement is completely gone and they don't respond very good to me anymore. What could I do and how can I add value to these people, I know for a longer time?

Thank you

Dear Adam:

Hi! I'm Cococo, 23 years old. And I want some advise, please. I always run out of things to say or I bring non interesting topics of conversation that make the girls feel bored.

I've considered some possible ways to solve it:

1) practice and practice and practice. The idea behind this option is that if I keep approaching and saying whatever comes into my mind, slowly I'll become a good conversator and I'll have more topics of conversation, sense of humor, etc. PROBLEM: the progress seems to be very very slow. Though I've been in field almost for a year, I usually find myself in the middle of awkward silences and asking "interview questions" (what's your name?, what do you do for living, etc)

2)routine stack: I've tried and I feel it works. PROBLEM: saying the same things again and again makes me feel extremely bored. I also have the aspiration of being myself while I am with a girl and attract her with my own weapons.
My goal is to be a 100% natural someday, but I also consider the use of some routines if it will make my progress faster. Someone said in the community that every natural was previously a great stacker, and that every PUA who is good at improvising started with caned material

What should I do about it??


Thanks, Cococo.