I have had sex about 8 times, all but 1 have had alcohol involved.

but even when I get blown and am given handjobs I am having trouble getting off. I get hard, almost get there, me and my gf chage positions or something then I go limp, or sometimes I just keep going and going

how can I increase my sensitivity, any types of condoms I should use?

Try not drinking. I know when I've had a few drinks, I last way longer, and sometimes have trouble finishing. Never have that trouble sober!

last night I was completely sober, she had two orgasims, I got close but lost it and eventually we gave up. I'm not worried about it, but she feels that she is unworthy because she can't get me off. I explained to her its not her, that I have always lasted long and not to worry about it. but regardless I can't nut.

I've been reading up and I think what I am experiencing is called Delayed Ejaculation it occurs in 1 in 10 men (WEBmd). Does anyone know how to fix this

BTW
I take protein supplements and adderall
the adderall is prescribed 10mg

I need help solving this issue

I've been there man, it relly sucks, having a LOT of foreplay helps a lot, also just get some viagra, it works like a charm, dont matter your mood.

I think I have that problem too.. It's a gift and a curse.. Cause It's soo hard to cum when you want. I don't know if Maybe you feel you're too nervous and in your head too much thinking? I think that's the case for me. I was dating this hott el salvadorian hired gun and we were making out and I was soo turned on I wanted to just bust a load on her nice ass breasts and she said go for it! but I just couldn't? Kinda sucked

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This is a head game with yourself.. mental.. You are probably worrying the entire time oh shit I'm not gunna get off .. shes gunna feel let down if she can't get me off.. so on and so fourth..

You need to relax most of this is brought on by strees I had the same problems when i worked at my old job which was stressfull as hell. Thats when I start the MMa training to get rid of that tention.. Find a outlet


And when your in bed just enjoy it and don't worry about anything open your mind up..

honestly its not an issue, most people I think just are so concentrated on doing it right when they're first doing it that they arent too relaxed and its a lot harder to climax.
First few months I started having sex, I was with a girl I'd get her off but after a while I'd just give up, one girl I was with quite often started to feel like it was her of course, and that just goes down a really unpretty direction...
But after a while you just focus on having fun and enjoying it and forget about getting off, and thats whent he sex gets good and suddenly you're telling the girl to slow down a bit because you're going to blow your load

Also comes down to positions too, you find ones that work for you, I like to bang in lots of positions and then when I want to get off usually I'll go doggy and just focus on me from that point after she's had her fill, but its definitely nothing to be worried about, I think it just takes a while sometimes to stop thinking so much and start just relaxing and enjoying it.

But hey, its better that than the first few times you're blowing your load before you even get it in like some stories I've heard from people

I had that "problem" too some years ago, and it still comes back sometimes when I'm with a girl that is really good and I put pressure on myself.

It's actually two problems:
#1 The girl may be concerned she's not pleasing you enough
#2 You want to get your rush of dopamine

Solving #1 can be easy if you have a little talent of actor.
If a girl ask if she's doing fine, or whatever meaning your too long for her, you can say : "You want me to come now?" whatever she answers, you make her change position, and 3 mins later, you fake it, instantly after getting out you throw the rubber away, so she can't ask how much there is or whatever.
She may even think that you can last as long as you want and come when you want, and that it was great sex indeed, since you CHOSE to make it last.
After that, you will probably feel totally comfortable from solving that "situation" and you can re-fuck and get off really quick since you're not concerned anymore (and you just solved #2).

If you don't want to fake it or you are afraid she calls it, a good way to break the loop (pressure=>no blow => pressure...) is just to take a 10 mins break : going down on her makes her know that you enjoy yourself and release the pressure on both of you, just don't add on yourself the pressure of making her come.
If you think it's gross, you can just rest for a while (makes sense to me after one hour or so). The problem is that the stress may shout up again when you restart, so use these 10 mins to re-frame and rebuilt comfort.
This is true for both girls and guys: you can have sex without comfort, but not orgasm.

Anyways, when you will start solving the problem the loop will reverse (less pressure => better sex => less pressure.... )
And that's what you're looking for, if you can just start the good loop by deciding not to worry about it anymore, it's even simpler.

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stop taking adderall!! do you have ADD or ADHD. if you have ADD, there should be no reason to take that during socail situations. even if i had ADHD, i wouldnt take it if i knew i was going to have sex. that shit just ruins things man

She has a floppy vagina.

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Don't feel bad im on an 8 week cycle of roids, my sex drive has drop to the floor and it's a big deal if I get an errection. I'm on week 4 and I've had one orgasm, and had sex atleast every day.

you want to see a girl sad, letting your dick go soft inside of her will have her wondering whats wrong with her.

poor girl, I really like her, little does she know I'm going to turn into the most feminine guy in 4 more weeks.

90 more days til the sex drive goes back to normal right before my competition woop

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