First off, i have a beautiful girl, a 10 by most people's standards. Now i didn't think she was a 10, but so many people have told me that now, that i just believe it.

My whole life i've always been hit on by girls, but i never knew it, till maybe a year and a half ago. I was approaching my 27th birthday, and still a virgin, i said screw all my inhibitions and the next girl i thought liked me i'll try and sleep with her. The next girl came along, and on the first date she invited me to her house, and in bed with her ready to go beside me, i couldn't do it. Scared of the first tinme jitters, etc ... the next night she wouldn't let me go till we had sex. So we did, i sucked at it, but she didn't care, i thought she would have laughed, honestly She wasn't good looking to me, i would say a 5, so i told her its over, the next week another girl hit on me, with the last homerun i just went for it again. And it worked !!!! again !!! she was a bit different, looked better, probably a 7 or even an 8. Also i'm saying 7 or 8 becuase i asked other people about how she looked, those were the responses i got. She had some personal baggage attached to her, and she lived far. I said i didn't want to pursue any type of relationship but instead of being upset, she craved me more, and eventually told me blatently she wanted to become fuck friends. This was a 7 or 8, i was blown away.

So now i have this 7 or 8 begging me for sex, as weird as it sounds, i never had sex with her again. I didn't want to go that route, a week later, the girl i'm currently with approached me. Now i've been with her for almost a year, she is a 10 in beauty, and mind. Going to medschool in the coming months, i don't ahve a job so she buys me everything, cooks great meals, cleans .... she amazing but my question arrises right here ....

I just came upon this whole PUA stuff, and just got into it, read some of 'The Game', watched the pick up artist. A lot that i've read i and seen i do naturally, not the lines themselves, but just my mannerisms, the way i talk. I'm curious to see how far, if i get some more knowledge and practise my game could go. Or have i found what everyone is looking for and should just park my ship at the port.

if you've read this far, any type of response would be great ... from "your an idiot and just wasted the last 5 minutes of my life" ... "to whatever your opinion is about it" ... thanks for the help in advance

Just park your ship my man. You don't wanna do anything to throw off your game AT ALL. Why do girls hit on you? This is a very rare phenomenon.. are you good looking/muscular/both? Do you also naturally peacock?

"My whole life i've always been hit on by girls, but i never knew it, till maybe a year and a half ago."

How did learn that? Tell us more. Just curious and you said any response is good

As weird as this may sound, i realized after i got heavily into poker. I had learnt that poker was all about reading people, and did research on how to look at people's small reactions so that i could win. I actually became really good at it, and would notice people's 'tells', i stopped playing poker becuase the stakes got too high, i would play in 100 dollar hands and even though i won i knew that poker is a game of luck and eventually dumb luck would cost me. I become good enough to know a persons hand just by a glance, the moment they looked at the cards, that brief moment in time gave me worlds of knowledge.

After this, just out of sheer stupidity or boredom, lol .. don't know which. I started applying this poker theory towards everyday life. When i met someone, i would say something simple such as "Hi, how are you doing?"

No matter the answer they told most of the time i could tell if they were being honest of just bs'in me. I never reacted on it, just made a mental note. When meeting random new girls (friends of friends), i decided to try the same thing, and eventually i mustered up the courage to call them out on it. So same question, "Hi, how are you doing?", if they said great, but i felt that they were lying i would call em' out on it. Say something like, "I just met you and your already lying to me, thats no way to make a good first impnression". As i conversed with them, whenever i had that same feeling i'd react on it, not always calling them out, but if i could i would relate to them, find out their interests.

So now i'm doing this on a daily basis, in every conversation, and one day, i just realized i was getting glances by lots of girls. I obviously thought it was all in my head and ignored it, then it comes to the point in my story i told you about, i just acted on it, led the conversation and found out as best i could if they really felt that way about me. And as you know, things went pretty good. Now i know you all get those feelings of six sense, even mid conversation a slight glance from a girl passing by.

To answer the question about looks and physique, i'm an average guy, not tall or short, i'm overweight for my height by about 40 pounds, got a gut that still stops me from taking off my shirt at beaches, or wearing tight shirts. Becuase of hte gut i've always stood up straight with my shoulders out, it hides it really well ... lol

I appreciate the responses, i really don't have anybody else to tell this too, as i imagine my friends would think i'm just being a moron. Btw she's about 3 to 4 years younger than me, and I do feel like parking my boat. But i wanted to know some anonymous and hopefully honest impressions of my situation.

very nice there! I am asking that because I have sil\milar problam telling if girl likes me. I always have similar situations like this as an example:
I go to the club, having fun, saying hi to women etc etc. And there is always someone from friends to tell me something along those lines - "hey dude wtf why don't you say hi to this girl she is so into you" . I don't notice that, I am always like "oh really, why would you say that". And they "dude, are you blind"
As for glances - if I see a girl glancing at me I just think she just glances everywhere, from object to object and it was just random. I mean you can't always stare at the ground, you have to look somewhere or at somebody. Maybe there were many glances indicating interest and I thought they were just random.
Sorry to hijack your thread

Bro honestly If she likes you as much as she seems to she wont mind if you tell her....I would bring it up at the proper time but tell her non the less. Dont act like it bugs you....just tell her you have not been with many women because you had been raised to be respectful....leave it at that and let her make the next move. If she blows you off then cut her out and dont talk to her because 1. If she does that shes not worth being with, and 2. she will prob come back to you once you cut her off.

Honest man I never lie to women....I am always respectful and tell them how I feel. Its not what you say it whats heard and if you tell her like a man then she will respect you and she will definitely like the fact your not a man whore!!!! trust me girls dont think like we do. If you two are about to have sex I would just tell her that you need to talk to her and then look her in the eye's and tell her the truth with out looking like a little boy....Look confident, look her in the eyes, and tell her you like her and have not been with alot of women ect....you will feel alot better and so will she.

No one man can know what another man wants, so it's up to you to determine if you want to stay with her or if you want to try the PUA technics. Also a thing to remember is that PUA isn't for single people looking to get lucky, look at my sig, this is a lifestyle. It will have everyone reacting to you different b/c you are different and you don't need a reason to be a Alpha Male. This stuff can be applied in everyday life. Look at the Lion, he doesn't pick moments in his life to be a lion, it's just who he is. That's what this PUA stuff is teaching you, to live life the way it should be.
Hope to get some feedback soon
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Thanks for the words of advice, the last two posts were very informative. Firstly about being straight to her would be the best scenario to go about doing it, but i'm still undecided on if i want to even leave her, there's a strong chance she'd let me have my fun and then start over. But that is bound to create some underlying issues that would/might come up later in the relationship.

Also the comment about this being a way of life was great too, i guess i would have to disagree with that. But never being in the game i don't have much of an argument against someone who has lived it already. I was looking at this PUA thing as a way of improving my social skills, not as a way to pick up every girl i come in contact with, even though i realize that is the main goal. I wanted to use this PUA knowledge as more so of a skill set i can use in everyday life to get on the good side of management, be able to entertain when needed. To come off as a person of confidence and somebody other people strive to be. A girl is just one part of a persons life, i wanted to use the PUA skill set to further increase other parts of my life, my career, my family life, etc ... do you think its possible to use what information is here to increase general social skills?

To the person that stated he feels he has many moments that he could have gone further, don't fret man, there will be many more. As i said initially i just tossed all my fears out the window, realized my life is too short to just not test my curiousity. I was scared of becoming a 50 year old virgin and that thought alone put all my fears at rest, i realized that the only way to stop that was to just try. And looked at what happened when i tried, o man, if i had known this years ago, i might be better man today, or a worse man, depending on your morals ...lol. I'm not an expert like many in these forums, so i can only hope you just go out there and try. G'luck i'm sure you wont need it once you give it a go ...

Thanks for nice words, but I had and have enough of women already
Basicly now what I want to do is I want to be able to see if she likes me only from the way she looks at me. Not from IOI's she sends like fixing hair, positions and so on, not from her talking, but only from the way she look at me It would be next level Like I said for instance I am at bus stop and while waiting I see a girl glancing at me very often. And I want to be able to tell if she likes me or she just glances because she have to look at something