Hey AFC Adam, I hail from the small country of Malaysia. As far as I know, there's a pickup community here but I'm just starting out and hope to be as good as you one day. I never really liked the idea of negging or being a cock too much and I find myself a fan of your so-called AFC methods. I guess I'll fall back on cocky and funny if I'm out of ideas.

I'm just exploring your method now but based on your earlier formula
(C – R) + Q + SE = A
I just want to know if this is what I should be doing in order.

Comfort:

Add value
Intro: Hi, my name's...
DHV: I like....What's your opinion on....Routines.
Kino (hugs, etc)

Rapport break:

You haven't heard of it? OMG no.
Small pranks.
Cut off kino.

Qualification:

What makes you...Why should I...
Compliment: That's very cool

Sexual escalation:

Kino
Sex talk/jokes
Flirt

And from there K-close and F-close? I understand getting her to invest is important, but to do this you have to have attractive qualities and get her to qualify herself right? Well I'm still a little vague on the details but let me know if I've got it all down. Thanks Adam!

What do you think about this Adam?

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I love it

Dear AFC Adam.

Lately I've come across a glitch in my system. I've been going steady with a couple of girls for some time now and just had a thought.

If there ever is a time in a relationship that she can stop qualifying herself?
Basically I have a girl eating out of my hand, and I think it's kind of strange.
I've come to the conclusion that having a girl qualify herself is ONLY for the first few dates. I may be wrong, but I wanted to bounce the idea off a more experienced person.

P.S. When are you guys coming to Tampa or St. Petersburg, FL area?

Thanks for your time! - DieselFuel

Hey Adam,

Thanks for devoting time to this thread. Amazing stuff here.

My question:

What is the difference between a rapport break and a congruence test?

Dear Adam,
thank you so much for everything you did for me and the community. All your stuff out there are awesome (especially the free stuff =)).
I just want to wish you, Amanda and your Family a Merry Christmas and a peacefull holiday season! I hope you are doing fine and enjoy your Christmas.
You are going to be the best Pick Up Artist in the world, Adam!

Merry Christmas,
Dang1991

Hi Adam, it's me again, Steven!!

Thanks for your previous advice, she started to looking for me!! (the girl is still the same one) I know that you're busy, but if you have time, please answer these questions:

1. If she's not comfortable with sexual banter, like "U know, when I was playing football with my friends, I got "shot" at "that" area. It was fun, minus the shot of course! ". U know, then she replied by text "Sorry for late reply. Tee..hee.. Hey, should u tell me that? XP. then bla bla bla." The question is: is it still fixable?? I mean, can I still fix the uncomfortability and get the girl just as girlfriend??
Basically, I don't want to have sex until marriage (it's my life commitment) Besides, she's not the kind of girl that will have sex with somebody until her marriage (I think).

2. Is it OK to ask her like this: " I think we should hang out together in Saturday to XX"???

Thanks dude, you're big help

Your buddy,

Steven

hey adam, a bit of a silly question but why do you call yourself AFC adam when your clearly not an afc anymore? . also i sent you some questions through help@ukpua.tv about a week ago after seeing i could contact you. if you have any free time to take a look that would be great. im so pleased theres a pick up artist out there thats main priority is helping people.

oh one other thing, how can i get that cool accent lol??

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Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

Hi Adam,

Im traveling a lot lately so it's hard for me to build an entourage. What's your suggestions then? (I bounce from city to city, many foreign ones which I can speak local language).

Also, say if I do settle down, how can I build an entourage. I ask because in your vid you said you only sarge with guys that bring 5-10 girls. But I dont already have girls!

Last but not least, Im having language barrier with girls. Not so much right now, but heading to Austria then Eastern europe in a few days. What to do??

Hi

I need some help.

Last week I approached a girl and did number close in the end. But it was not smooth. When I asked for phone number after about 6 minutes of conversation she said that if you need a number for normal friendship etc then its fine otherwise she was not sure. I didn't know how to respond so I said I am asking number so that I can call her sometimes and hang out etc. In the end she gave me number. Yesterday she sent me SMS that she was going for skiing with her boyfriend and after that there might be a possibility for meet up. Now I cant write whole SMS here but I got the feeling that she was trying to specificaly tell me that she has a "boy friend". I am sure when we will meet she will bring her boyfriend with her.

So I really dont know how to continue with this situation. Should I forget this and look for something else...??. What should I do when I meet with her and she brings her boyfriend???

Thanks

Entourage Game is self explanatory.. however..
Starting with no girls, how do you build an entourage?

Entourage Game is self explanatory.. however..
Starting with no girls, how do you build an entourage?

Dear Chanc3,

Thank you very much buddy

With the transition you want to drop the opener and get into a conversation, you'll find that when you add value (make her laugh, give her a genuine compliment ect) you'll be able to transition as simply as introducing yourself, getting her name and then follow with a statement about her “hey jane, so is it work or shopping today?”

As long as you keep adding value, she'll be happy to talk to you, interesting conversation is enough, don't aim to steer convo's onto your scripted answers as the conversation wont feel genuine and you wont get comfort.

An exercise that I teach on bootcamps is the questions game, you ask your friend a question and he has to answer you with a question and this continues until one of you answer in statement rather than question.

The aim of this is to put the pressure of the conversation on the other person and feel comfortable with the pressure of conversation on you instead of getting nervous, I have friends that play this game for fun and they have sworn it's made their brains work quicker in conversation, which I don't know about but it sounds great!

Hope this helps
AFC Adam,

Dear Dang1991,

It's no bother buddy, tbh I reckon I'm bothering you with my late replies. Sorry bout that

What I would do in your situation is befriend all the little groups, I'd chill with them, find out what they like then arrange a regular event that they'd be into. Then I'd do the same with all the others. You may be throwing a few activities a month, which is even better for your social life.

Value is an interesting one, it can take many forms and can be very specific for each person or types of people. Your main job is to understand what value these different groups respond to and add it, do it enough until they invest in you. and then use it to merge all the groups, find what they respond to and add it!

Trust me buddy it's not impossible, I know you can do it. Let me know how it goes!

AFC Adam,

Dear nick1811,

This is an interesting one buddy, there may be a good reason she's decided not to go the whole way with you yet, perhaps she's been really hurt in the past, perhaps she has religious hang ups about sexual encounters, there could be a million reason as to why.

The very fact that you've fingered her tells me that it's not as bad as one may think, my advice to you is to get her very turned on, so turned on to the point she escalates on you.

It's all about giving, aim to give her as much pleasure as possible, start off with a massage. Use proper oils, nice big fluffy towels, relaxing music, go the full works.

Aim to give her the most relaxing erotically charged night of her life, get her comfy. Then very slowly, make it sexual. Work her erogenous zones (the bits around her sexual bits ie the upper inner thigh but not the vagina)

Pay attention to how her body responds to you, if you touch an area and she responds well do it more but not too much, it's about push pull, give her pleasure then take it away, do this enough and she'll eventually chose to have sex with you.

Let me know how it goes!
AFC Adam,

Dear Merri,

One of the best things you can do is break into the social circle, befriend her friends and get them to like you, that way the very act of her trying to get rid of you becomes ten times harder.

A friend and I were at a club once and he decided to open a girl by high fiving her, she looked and then turned her back on him.

He tried again and she ignored him again.

He then waited five minutes and approach the entire group, asked them if he could get through all of them to get to the bar and when they agreed he high fived all of them one by one, until he got to the girl who refused him twice already.

He had a massive grin on his face because he knew she couldn't reject him after all of her friends had accepted him as she'd be going against her entire peer group.

And she high fived him.

The same principles are in place, hope this helps

AFC Adam,