I made out with her for like an hour on the dance floor. Then i got her number and said we should after party at my house. So she is like "ok i'll ride with my friends there." But after i left the bar i think her friends convinced her to go home. Basically, my intentions at a club is try to get a girl home that night or say screw it since i figure once we are both sober are personalities won't be as... uhh.. into it.

So i was really suprised when she texted me the next day since i was not planning on ever texting her. So now she wants to hang out. I'm pretty nervous, since ever since i broke up with my girlfriend i don't "date" girls. I just try to hook up with girls on weekends at clubs or parties. But im realizing that it's actually quite a bit more difficult to get laid this way. The best way is to like watch a movie with a girl on a regular day. But i hate doing this stuff because i feel like im leading them on when i don't know what i want, so i get extreme anxiety.

So i gotta figure out what i should do with this girl tomorrow. I was thinking of either going to a movie or watching a movie at my place. Watching a movie at my place = best chance of getting laid so i might see if she wants to do that even though it's a cheap first date but maybe i should just go in with the attitude of screw it i don't care what she thinks?

Wow i use this board to rant too much sorry, don't know what im even really asking here. I guess do you think i should take her somewhere or just tell her to come over to my place?

I'm pretty new to this PUA lifestyle, but to be honest, I don't think you've got much choice, blazerfan.
But then again, what do I know

I'm pretty much share your attitude about dance floor pick-ups and not wanting to be exclusive. Mainly because I wouldn't of had a chance to chat to them much / build enough comfort on the dancefloor. Therefore skipping too many steps for a non awkward day 2.

Either hers or yours is good, whichever she seems most comfortable with. If it comes down to it, be honest and do tell her your not looking for a serious relationship at the moment but you'd like to hang out with her and have fun. Before you meet up just make the conversation as suggestive as possible to 'warm' her up before you meet. Good luck

blazer, I think you need to put yourself in a better frame of mind.

Okay, so first off, you may want to hook up with a chick and fuck, but chicks have other uses as well. You may find that going out and getting to know her may help your game. I suggest going shopping with her at the mall. Have her help find you some new clothes! This will set you up for better sarging later on. In addition, get to know her, practice your normal game, practice your interest building stories.

This is a perfect opportunity to build on your comfort building stage that you have been avoiding for a while in the bar scene. You may find that you actually like her attitude and have fun with her. Then you can be fuck buddys which is infinitely better than just a one night stand.

Just do yourself a favor. Be honest with her. Tell her "I really like you" instead of "I love you". Tell her "We have an interesting and fun time together which is unique as most girls I get bored with" rather than "I love spending time with you, you're the best". Be honest with her, and remember, girls want a boy toy as much as you want a FWB. So go for it, but remember to set relationship boundaries and get in a good frame about it.

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