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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 12:13 pm 
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Hey guys my question for you today is what is the best thing to do or to say when a girl says to you...I have a boyfriend ( and if she really has one but not neccesarily)...do I move to fast? I'm not creating enough attraction first?
What's you ideas?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:45 pm 
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The "boyfriend" line can be just another shit test.
Continue to look for IOIs and move in the usual tempo,
If she is conveying IOIs and then says she has a boyfriend it's incongruent, and she'll probably not be averse to getting to know you better.
as you get better you'll get better at spotting whether this is only a shit test or if she's serious. (hint: her body language is always more correct than her words.)


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:46 pm 
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girls say that normally because A) they do have a bf, B) they're not attracted to you, C) they're screening you.

as for what to say... well... doesnt matter. your reaction says more than your actual words. and your reaction should be that you dont care whether she has a bf or not. so anything you say will work, as long as it's congruent with that state of mind. you can also use this as an opportunity to disqualify yourself or neg her...

some ideas:
"aww cute, anyway *new thread*"
"really? me too!"
"i wasn't hitting on you, dear :wink:, i dont do blondes/brunettes/tall girls/short girls"
"your self confidence is admirable, but not everyone who talks to you is trying to pick you up :wink: "
-say nothing, just tilt your head, give a slight *haha, you're an idiot* smile and continue talking

you:"want to get some coffee/a drink/ etc?"
her:"i have a bf"
you:"and that means that you're not allowed to have coffee/a drink/whatever? wow, he's got you in check... i need to meet this guy and learn from him!"


another one i've used once (which worked well btw):
her: i have a bf
me: hey look! its a friggin flying panda!
her: what? where?
me: i dont know, im just changing the subject.
her: *laughs*


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:15 pm 
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Theres alot of threads on this forum about this but some of the lines i like wich ive seen on here are...

Her-I have a bf
PUA- Is that to remind me or you?
PUA-wow arnt you cute? you think just because your hot every lad that talks to you is hitting on you? Bring that ego down abit *Freeze out*
PUA- Wow really.....you?! (as if you couldnt imagine her having a bf)
PUA- OMG SO HAVE I!!! Hes called Juan i bought him off the internet for £30 what a bargain! Hes 18, hes phillipenan and hes got a body to die for!(I love using this as it makes them laugh and i have the serious metrosexual look wich is often mistaken for being homosexuality so this line works great)
PUA- Do me a favour?....Tell him to go fuck himself

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:23 pm 
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You guys should look into the routine forums.
griff_199 - The reply seems kind of try-hard. Should tone it down a bit. Normally, you should just acknowledge throw in some C&F and be done with it and maybe show her some IoDs.

Here are some ideas from Jay Wa.
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What to say when she tells you she has a boyfriend:

"I have a boyfriend" - Her (in a playful way)
"I can totally relate...I actually have two kids." - You

She will more than likely call you out on it. But more importantly, she will be changing the subject back to you and probably realize that her being in a relationship is not that big of a deal.

"I have a boyfriend"- Her (in a defensive way)
"Wow, I'm sorry, you must have thought that I was hitting on you. I was actually just being nice..." - You

This will make her feel guilty and she will more than likely apologize to you.

"I have a boyfriend." - Her (in a bitchy way)
"Great. Can you do me a favor? Tell him to go fuck himself." - You

Use this last one only if you really have to.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:57 pm 
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PUA- Do me a favour?....Tell him to go fuck himself
i reeally dont see how that one can do any good but i like it :)

ot: "really? so have i!" this one really worked wonders for me.


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PUA- Do me a favour?....Tell him to go fuck himself
i reeally dont see how that one can do any good but i like it :)

ot: "really? so have i!" this one really worked wonders for me.
I only use the "tell him to go fuck himself" if shes saying it in a propa bitchy arragont way for example.
i was talking to a set once and the targets friend came over and i started talkin 2 her just small talk then she randomly threw out "Omg stop fukin hittin on me ive got a bf!" she was extremly drunk and took my neg of "wow i like your top were did u get it from ive seen loads of people with it on" as pickup line. So i just went "Wow do me a favour...tell him to go fuck himself" then turned my attention onto annother girl

it worked for me im not saying its fool proof or feild tested but i sure found it funny as hell.

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