I think I got a "sympathy blow job".
So, I'm new here, and I need a little help from the experienced PUA's here on what to do next. Keep reading to understand my "sympathy blow job" and help me decide what to do next!
I've got a girl (the one that gave me sympathy blow job) and I'll try to sum it up as it's very long story. If you want any details you can ask.
So, everything started when I was bored at the internet and a friend of mine added me in a MSN conversation and there was a girl there.
I presented myself as a really nice guy who also was studying the same thing as she at uni, but I was more advanced.
I added her at MSN and we started talking more and more. So, at this time she had a boyfriend.
After a few days my computer broke, and I got the idea of using this to get her phone number, and I did. I also gave her mine.
Then I was too busy and didn't saw she was SMSing to me stuff like "Hey! I have an exam at uni. Can you help me with this? Can you come here at my house?"
After a few days I saw the SMS, and answering back something like: "Ok. I can go there help you with this.". I set up a morning on saturday to do this.
Then on Saturday morning I said "I'm sorry. I'm sick and I can't go to your house today."
She felt really bad with that.
I started talking a lot with her. Being really funny. We SMS'ed each other a lot.
Then one day she sent me a SMS saying something like "I just broke with my boyfriend. I'm really bad with this. But I couldn't keep this relationship, he cheated on me."
Then I played the good boy and tried to make her feel good like "Oh... I think he didn't deserve you."
Then a few days later I asked if she wanted to go to the movies with me. She said yes, and we went. At first I acted shy. Then inside the cine I touched her hand, and she threw her body to me, and I kissed her. We kissed all night and it was good.
Now the problem starts. I fell in love with this girl. And I think she noticed that I started being too much of a nice guy.
Then she went to a party alone and asked if I wanted to go. Then she said "No! You can't go!" and I was like "Why!?" and she said that a friend was interested in her and she would feel really bad to kiss me in front of him as he would try to convince him to not lose the friendship.
I was really pissed off by this, but I said "Ok" just to not act like I was trying posses her. But that's when I found this community and said to myself "I will not be AFC anymore.".
I offered to help her with her homework if she could come to my house.
But as well as being a nice guy, I really wanted to fuck her too.
So I started to bring her to my room.
At this time it was clear I was totally into her. And she started playing "I already own you, so I can do whatever I want."
Then out of random one day we were at my room and she wanted to gave me a blow job. She did it. I tried to push further to fuck her. But she (only wearing panties at this time) said she didn't thought it was the right time.
She said she did that because I was "really nice guy".
So that was the "Sympathy blow job"!!!
Then she kept treating me like shit. Showing like she was not really interested in me. Always postponing our meetings.
That's when I got really pissed off and decided to have a serious talk to her. So I to sum it up I said that we could keep seeing each other and try to start it over. Then she said it was not safe to have a LTR because she was afraid of hurting the feelings of another guy.
So I started to be rAFC here. And I said something like "Yeah! I too think it's dangerous to have a LTR right now! We should just keep meeting and see what we get!".
Now she was confused about my feelings. Like "How come a guy who is in love with me just accepts keep seeing me with no intentions of LTR!?".
Then I kept keeping her confused, and I'm being cocky & funny since then. Not being AFC like before.
I started acting busy and not really caring too much for her.
Then she started chasing me a little and as a reward I did:
So, I know she's busy now with uni during the afternoons. And I said at MSN something like "So, are you willing to see me?" and she said "we can hang out any of these days at morning." and I said "I'm free at Wednesday. Can you come to my place?" and she said "Yes, I can".
So, I need a little help now. She will come here and I need to get SEX from her. What should I do?
I REALLY NEED AN ANSWER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!
Thank you guys!