Lets take a moment before I give you the goodies and make sure you are on the same page as me for this.
What is a Qualification? Lets look at the reliable, under appreciated man Webster's thought.
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"qual⋅i⋅fi⋅ca⋅tion-noun
1. a quality, accomplishment, etc., that fits a person for some function, office, or the like."
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Reminis's definition
"Qualification-IOI
1: Selling yourself to somebody"
So it is qualities, accomplishments, skills, traits, etc that we claim for some sort of function.
Making a woman qualify is very easy but can also lead you to losing her.
There are many ways to make an individual qualify. You can also use a bait type of topic to make her qualify and use it as a compliance test.
Lets say you are talking about massages
You: "I love a girl who knows how to give a massage RIGHT".
Hb:"Oh I love giving massages!, but I dont know if I do it right"
Not only did she invest effort to let you know she gives massages, but she is doubting her skills to not disappoint you at a later time. If she didn't have interest in you, she wouldn't have to tell you the above without you directly asking her in the first place.
This can be categorized as a simple yet one of the best qualifying types because you aren't putting yourself up for a rejection also receiving the qualify is a definite IOI because it was totally her choice.
you:"Do you like Starbucks?"
hb: yes
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you:"Do you like Starbucks?"
hb: I'm in-love with that place, their cinnamon dolce fraps are amazing
you:*high five* You looked like a starbuck's type of girl! Their love seat has my name on it of how often I go there! haha.
As you can see the first one I would take it as an IOD, one word answer and pretty much killed the topic of starbucks.
I love using starbucks conversation because a vast majority of woman enjoy Starbucks. In the second one, you can see she went ahead and told you her favorite kind of drink. Since she went above and beyond to keep the conversation going, go ahead and reward her. I gave her an IOI with some kino, and also threw in a c/f response that can be lead sexual if she wants Twisted Evil. This can be categorized as medium since you are opening questioning her with some chances of getting a negative reaction.
you:"What sets you apart from the rest of the girls?"
hb: I'm real, I can cook, I am independent, I also love giving massages!
you: Thats awesome, you're going to have to show me that massage later.
This one is a type that is based on how much attraction she has for you. She knows answering this she is showing interest in you. It is best to use this type when she has previously invested in you to avoid a negative reaction.
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Since I am always striving to takeover Yillan's idle throne I had a nice conversation with 870 about him and I qualifying for each other accidentally. I came up with this little formula I guess you can call it Cool
False Qualify Accusation=Forced Qualification
you:"You are always trying to win me over
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her: how? haha, maybe I am
You can see accusing her of qualifying forces an IOI or an IOD towards you. This can be used as a compliance test because even if she gives you an IOD you are still ok because you didn't give her an IOI. Its a win, win situation.
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