basically im gaming about 9 HB 7's + SPAM
but i wanna make em MLTR's (Multi Long-Term Relationships)
how do i do that?
i mean do i just flat out say what i want?
or is there a set routine i can use for it?
I've k-closed all of the girls and have maintained frame-control throughout
i just need the how

Help me out?

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Be Honest with them.

There's no routine to tell a girl that you want MLTRs. You just need to be 100% honest with them, and be prepared to accept rejection.

Why do you want MLTRs though?

Also, what does MLTR mean to you?

What are you going to tell the girls?

Cinnamon

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Just tell them in the most balls to the wall, no apologies way that you do not want to be committed to one girl at the minute so you would rather keep her as a friend with benefits so to speak (I wouldn't recommend saying it that way though).

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Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.

tbh i think its more to do with on tap...sex i guess
but i only want to keep the ones i genuinely value for them themselves rather than their aesthetic value
and cheers man, i'll try that one out

x

Okay, I'm gonna need a bit more clarification on that.

So you just want sex whenever you want it? (To be fair it should also be whenever the girls want it too.)

And then do you want these sex-only relationships to transition into more serious relationships as they develop, dumping the ones that you do not value for more than sex?

To get sex-only MLTRs you're going to need a LOT of confidence, a LOT of honesty and a LOT of luck. Out of your nine I'd say you can expect about 3 to actually agree to it, even with the potential to become more serious in the future.

You're going to activate a shitload of ASD here. The term 'friends with benefits' instantly translates in a girl's ears to 'I think you're a slut and we should have sex and nothing more'. Now that's because that's what it usually MEANS coming out of the boys mouth.
Be aware of this and like I said, be 100% prepared for rejection. You are going to get it, I guarantee this.

So lemme know a few more details of what your plans are and I'll see if I can try and help you phrase it better to reduce this rejection.

Cinnamon

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Picture your previous LTRs.

Do you really want to have 9 of these..... at the same time ?

You're talking full time job here..

And don't fall for the temptation of pretending to each of them that they are the only one, in any case.
That's a huge risk.

I vote what cinnamon said; be open and honest about what you want...
But also; Think through it, is it what you really want ?

(personally I wouldn't want more than 3, simultaneously. )
think it through; and if you're still game, present the idea for the women.
Don't be surprised though if you get rejections.

oh, and I laughed; picture the woman agreeing to share you with other women asking "Well how many will I have to share you with?" and you go "Eight".......

^^

Wolf has a point there too.

You want MLTRs for on-tap sex, but understand that the R there means relationship and you WILL need to put some actual date-time in too.

You really need to think this through.

Cinnamon

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