hey me and this girl talked on and off and one time i got mad becuase i thought she was talking to me then she took this other guy a dance unexpectedly so now when i hang out with this girl i seam protective when she talks ot a guy and think does she like him?? now i really want to say something to her cuz its eating me the fuck up, but i dont wanna wreck anything if we have anything. i dont wanna say it and have her be all like WTF but its eating me up inside so i think i should do it what you guys think?

The reason this is fucking you up so much is cos you don't have other options... stop focusing so much on the one girl, we've told you this before.

Solomon II makes a good point. Next time, try to find more women.

As for THIS girl, I don't think you should say anything. You guys aren't
exclusive or anything. If you want to get more personal with her, then you
should kino escalate some more... MUCH more... venue loop, and crank up
the comfort. By comfort I mean your personal connection. Tell her some
personal stuff about yourself and be sincere about it. Open up to her. Once
you open up to HER, she'll open up to you, and you guys will be so much
more close. That way, she's going to remember you at all times and will love
to stick with YOU.

It also wouldn't help to build some more attraction. let HER chase YOU. fair?
Don't be the chaser. Don't let it eat you up, man. She's just another vagina.
No big deal.

So for now, take her out to somewhere FUN. Go to the mall and let her shop
with you. Then bounce to starbucks where you guys can sit for a couple
hours and seriously OPEN UP. Dont fortget to KINO ESCALATE!!!!!! and
you should be set to go.


But if she goes to some other dude before you can get to her...
With all respect, let it go, man . Nothing is worth your emotional grief
(unless its family related of course. some exceptions obviously apply haha).

yea i know but im stupid lmao... but i would get mad when she would talk to another guy so like last night when she was talking to a guy i just left and talked to another girl. But wouldnt i be getting confort with her by telling her that i get kind of mad whens he does but thTs becuase i dont know if shes likeing that other guy and might switch off me to him? idk if she likes me im just saying.

A girl can like many people at once, as can you and I and everyone else.

The important thing is that you show that you're cooler than the guy who might like her and talks to her.
Hopefully you've heard of the term AMOGGING.
The key is to be the cool and fun guy who doesn't want to start shit, unlike the AFC Assholes who always get jealous and make a big deal out of it.
A line that's often used is something like "Duude, you're like my little brother. Now excuse us for a second please." With a nice big smile. and then quickly back turn before he has a chance to respond.

Look into AMOGging and being an alpha.

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dude kick this chic to the curb i never hang out with a girl that makes me feel like shit inside. just go hit on a ass load of other girls and if there is something her jealousy will kick in and shell come start flirting with you if not fuck this chick it sounds like shes really getting to you.

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Blanc, if you can't handle your women, you've got some work to do.
There's a reason the chick is making you feel like shit, it's probably not intentional unless you've done something to make her mad or sad.
Having An Ego = Worthless. Even when you DHV and neg.

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what? thank you for the advice not trying to disrespect but this thread is about me its about stretch i dont have girl problems.

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but hey.. it's for stretch ya know.. gotta make sure he gets the right advice =]

and... your signature is disgusting bro.. sorry, i have to be honest.

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your right sry stretch theres more to it then just kicking her to the curb. grape has a point a girl can like multiple guys at once but thats not a problem as long as your the coolest. just relax and take it easy u cant make her do anything just make the right choices and do the right things that will sway her decisions the right way. just keep on doing your thing dont get mad when she talks to other guys i know its hard but u dont wanna do anything that will push her away. just let it blow over..... just keep on being the funny guy who is fun to hang out with and i dont know 1 girl who doesnt like being around a funny guy. just relax man u can do this, PUA or no PUA i believe that everything happens for a reason so what ever happens just go with it but make sure you make an effort to make things go your way.

hey grape u like my sig. now?

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yeah dude.. lol
i just got bothered by the violent shiz,
other than that i respect you for helping others in the forum bro =]

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you guys are the shit dizzle lol. idk about that girl man lol shes not the prettest thing but shes cute if u know what i mean also shes cool sometimes so idk i hope i didnty fucking blow it at the basketball game cuz i woud be pissed! how can i make her talk to me when she dosnt say text me or we. but still if u had a bad night wouldnt the girl say we and maybe still like you. IDK HAHA i just want this to work.

yeah.. it seems like you just want her for yourself.
If you want her to like you, make her like you.
Be the one who makes her feel great, feel anxious, and makes her 'heart pound.' i think i'v already said this before.. That way she'll want to talk to you and you won't have to force anything.
If you focus on just your own benefits of having her, you won't get anything.
A seducer's mind is set to his or her targets, not oneself.

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now i see where ur coming from a little but now. also when i was shoveling snow haha i was thinking u know how you guys said to open up say deep things anyways when i work sometimes i think about her would it be gay to say that?

would it be dumn to say that i think about her? sometimes at work