hi all. i'm writing this thread to ask about a HB i've had some sexual tension with for the last few months. at the risk of getting a oneitis diagnosis, let me say the following - while i do like the girl and could see myself in a relationship with her later on down the line (but not necessarily), right now its simply not a possibility, and i'm still pursuing other HBs as much as possible, just trying to improve my game overall. i'm in school with the girl, see her multiple hours a day in and out of school, and have made a decision to not pursue any possibilities with her until i am out of school to lessen the possibility of a falling out, as she is a good friend (i've never gotten the LJBF). i turned down the chance of doing so a few months ago when her interest was peaking after getting out of an LTR when the last thing i was worried about was women. with that said, i want to know how i can keep her attracted while working on my game elsewhere for a few months? particularly, how do i handle day-to-day interactions, and also when i see her out at night? IMO i think negging and disqualifying a reasonable amount while opening sets with other girls is a good approach. i dont think i should be qualifying her at all at this point, or interacting with her too much while i'm out, just maintaining an attraction. please don't get me wrong here - i'm approaching other girls and getting sets in as much as possible, but seeing the girl around does make me curious. i don't want to be in a relationship right now, i want to meet more women and improve my game. but i do think about the possibility of a relationship with this girl later on down the line, long or short term. what should i do to keep an upper hand?

do the same thing you do with all other girls, when she gives you value you give it back and depending on what type of girl she is you can really try to commit to this girl until your dating cus she may like the attention or she may like her space

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